Guys, I need your opinion.
So there is this cool, cute girl. We were good friends. But one day i got into a fight with her.
Then she said "OK YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK ITS OKAY DON'T". And next day i reply "OK". Then she blocked me. And after a week or somedays later i text and said "I'M SORRY".
But then she said "I'M BUSY RIGHT NOW AND I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS THING I'LL TEXT YOU LATER". It's been nearly 4 months she hasn't replied yet. Few days ago it was her birthday i thought of wishing her but i didn't.
I asked my friends should i text her or not.
They said "DON'T. BECAUSE WHEN YOU WENT TO SAY SORRY SHE HAD NO TIME FOR THIS THING. NOW ITS ABOUT SELF RESPECT".
So what you guys think should i text her or not?


If she really misses you , she will text you by herself .

I think you should think of your own opinion not of other you may know that person more than other people soo i think you should choose it 

☁️

nishitha

Confusion

It's been nearly 2.5 years since my first breakup, but I have still not been able to get-over my feelings for her completely. I dated another woman after her but that relationship didn't last long. Honestly speaking, I totally forgot about my first relationship during the latter relationship. But recently, I crossed paths with my first girl, and it's been difficult emotionally since then. A spurt of past emotions have enveloped me again.
More often than occasionally, a sense of loneliness haunts me. I feel that I am plagued with a constant desire for a partner and this syndrome has taken a toll on my academic performance. I desperately wish I could get over this problem.

Love

So been through a rough couple months my girlfriend got date raped left me and now says the 5 years she's been was all just a lie  because she still had feelings for her first boyfriend who's a creep that's 10+ years older than her and she's been talking to him over the phone. And after all this she's going to leave the state to be with him meanwhile she's still traumatized from her incident. I did everything for this girl would've took a bullet for her. So she strung me along used me and manipulated me tryed to get me to marry her get her pregnant. My whole life I attract fake people I doubtful there's anyone real out there anymore. Most women have a super evil side I guess. Have trust issues now and somehow I'm a asshole for telling her how wrong that was. There were subtle hints I now realize but I was blinded by love. I'm still feeling a lot of hurt but I'm ready to better myself and move on after 2 months of hell and games. I just want to meet someone honest with a good heart like me but seems impossible these days. Does anyone know how someone could be so heartless I wouldn't have had any hard feelings if she just told me that she still had feelings for her ex from the start.

Breakup

Need advice: Is the person/relationship still worth it if you have to constantly explain yourself and your triggers? That you have to communicate so hard for her to understand what you want to say even tho she knows it's hard for you?
Idk I just feel like it's the wrong person if in the get-go you don't feel understood.
Thoughts? 

Relationships

Hi guys, I'm just here to share my story and potentially help people out there struggling with difficult break ups. I was in a 7 year relationship with a psychologically abusive girlfriend that made me believe for so long that what her and I had was real love. She lied to me countless times, she was always sneaky and hid a lot of things from me. At some point she would barely give me any attention for over 8 months and I used to call her out for it but to no avail. She then ended up breaking up with me stating that I got 'boring'. I was so strung up on what she told me was love so I waited for her to come back. I faked who I was to not be boring for her. I never realized how special I actually was and that I wasn't the problem. I made excuses for her a million times over in the hope that she would change. The girl also cheated on me once and came to me crying saying that it was a mistake. I made the mistake and believed her. I am trying not to talk about the things she did as much because I don't want it to be about bashing her. I always made excuses about her having a tough childhood as the reason why she's that way. I ended up becoming an emotionless cold hearted man and that's when she fell for me. She fell for the constant fights and arguments and my unapologetic manner. That isn't who I've always been but that's what I became because of the constant heartbreak and heart ache. I got to a point where it was affecting my social life because she tried to isolate me from my friends by telling me she wants my time. I made a lot of mistakes in that relationship by believing what she was saying. She used to threaten suicide as well every time I tried to leave. That pulled on my heart string because I lost a sister to suicide. Basically I was in a relationship with a person with crazy level of narcissism. One night this year I caught her in a lie and she couldn't squirm away. I finally chose to leave and this time I committed to it fully. I was depressed because I did not know any different for 7 years than her. I convinced myself that I was the issue and that I would never find someone to love me like she did. It took 1 month of therapy and watching youtube (DoctorRamani) to learn the traits of narcissism. Since then I blocked her on every platform and she even recently emailed me to have a conversation. I had the conversation with her but I was not interested in being a friend as she suggested so I asked her to leave it at that. Ever since the breakup this has been the most peaceful I have ever felt in my life. I always thought that I would never find better but I didn't realize that I was missing something inside me that I had to find. I found happiness in myself first. I started working out more and focusing on my future a lot more. If love comes it will come but I wouldn't go out of my way to chase after it. People trust me, things only get better. I know it may be hard right now but I promise if you stay patient with yourself and work on yourself, however cliché it may sound. Embrace what you feel right now, all the pain, and turn into something positive. Use platforms like these so that you don't feel alone or go and be with your friends and family. Go out and do things for yourself. Don't focus on trying  replace them because that's where we go wrong. Focus on healing what was damaged. You also don't want to hurt someone else in an attempt to make your ex jealous, that doesn't make you cool. I promise you things will get better. Peace and love to you all. I'll share more of my story if needed. I left out a lot and I still wrote all of this 😅

Guys 😖 I don't know what's happening between me and my long distance gf!! She all the time go out with friends all the time n i told her is not looking good and still she goes out... And i never told her to don't go I just advice her being a bf is nit good all the time sometimes is okay you have to we have to but she never listen to me!! She make gave me a lots of excuse and go out still last time we had a problem that time she told me that she will maintain but the day she told me she keep on doing what she wants tooo still 😫😫😫 i dont know what to do??? Neither she give me a update where she is !! If sth happens, she is ready to be by her friends side!!! Rather then being byy side she always safe her friends plz guys can you guys gave me any advice m tried now 😔plz guys help me!! Everytime going out it doesn't look good know guys vat your not doing bad things!!! 

Anxiety

I am unable to move on from my ex. The last time she said many things which hurted me still whenever i feel upset and why she left me questions comes up in my mind i go and just vent out everything on her. This has happened Many times.. I Just want to cut off completely and just never ever want to go back text her even if i am sad 

i need emotional support and healthy suggest too i dk how to deal  and where to get though i mean someone had a crush on me but now it's too late for me make up this stuff and now every time i feel regret bcz its my fault she tried to express her feeling i really want to accept the proposal thou bcz its my first time someone say this stuff from thier heart but i have some reason which i can't now regret kills from inside its feels like i cheat someone else feelings and i don't think deserve someone for several years and regret will kill me from the inside till the end of my day i am not kidding i swear .

College

So My partner is acting weird. We dont talk whole day due to her work. Today i called her and she didnt responded to me and then said i m frustrated and just left. She is like i dont want to talk to you. Is this a mood Game whenever you are all Okay You come to talk and then You leave. And whenever i ask her anything she just tells me dont start urgueing this that everytime blames me. i dont even talk whole day.  I feel like a option and just blames.

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