Guys, I need your help. So there is this guy with whom I was kinda on a flirt stage but our flirt was on the grounds of genuine like of each other. Then for some reasons we could not be together and now he is with someone else. Before, he would express his feelings with gentle touching on my hair or face, nothing over the line. But now that he has a gf he still does those things sometimes. Like I’m so confused. Him being like that, makes me think of him the same way before which is wrong, i should not like or love him anymore. So I’m planning to tell him about this and ask him to stop it. But how should i explain it to him? I don’t want to be harsh or anything but should I let him know that if his like that it effects my feelings? Or what… How to say it. any idea?
Before, I accepted it because i felt that it was a sign that he had feelings for me but now I don’t even know who am I for him… A friend? Do friends do things like that?
Indeed. Isn’t such behaviors done in order to connect with someone, to show love and affection? So i guess you’re right
Thanks🙏🏻
I guess you should just say that either be normal or else just leave you coz he is playing with you and aswell with that girl tooo so it would be better to leave him and just move on in your life .
Ok, i want and will tell him to be normal. But when he asks why, should i tell him that its something that needs to be done with his gf and not me? Or should i highlight my feelings - that it effects me?
Are you serious or not you still keeping feelings for him, he is clearly playing with the feelings and you can’t be firm with your decision and say to him🤦🏻
I know, I should not but I’m so in love that can’t control my feelings for now. That’s the truth. Sad reality.
It’s just temporarily feelings just focus on yourself and then move on in life
Thanks for advices mate🙏🏻
Your feelings are genuine but his feelings are temporarily and it would end up you being hurted the most.
Hope @cureplace
you have to tell him this in polite way, because if he is with someone else, then better not play this game with you.
Girl you need not worry of hurting his feelings because he is completely playing with yours. Love your self and walk away
