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Anonymous

Guys, here is a quick question, my boyfriend talks with his ex reportee everyday, who flirts with him. Proposed him, and wants to be in a relationship with him. Apparently that girl is 21 years old.
My boyf told me, she is a kid, I never reciprocate her flirt, but I cannot block her. She flirts with him almost everyday, I have no idea what? Because everytime I ask him to show chat, he don’t show it to me at all. We are apparently in a LDR and he tell me, if you trust me you will never ask me what and how I talk with.
When I tell him to block that girl, as now she is not even his reportee, he said I cannot do that. ’ she is a bachi’ and I’m overreacting.
Guys, apparently I know, he don’t give a fuck, if I do same, because he tell me, you do you, I don’t bother such things. I have no idea what to do? Is this cheating or not?
Yesterday, he told me, the girl who wants to be in a relationship with him and flirt with him, was feeling guilty, saying, if your girlfriend see it, she will be so angry. I’m so sorry for it.
I need genuine advice on this situation, this is a red flag or not? What should I do?

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Anonymous

Hey

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Wanna connect?

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Anonymous

Banda ekdum pagal he . i think he loves the attention from her …he may take u turn from u …so jyada push na karo usko…do what he want to do .

U keep quiet and fr the time being thoda time lelo and dont say abt this topic . and agar aapko laga ki he is behaving odd for 1-2 week …ekdum se attack karo and decide what u wanna do with him.

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Anonymous

She is no ‘bachi’ that’s so very clear from what she is doing. If your boyfriend would have been a loyal person he would have asked to stop whatever the game she is playing simply by saying that I have a girlfriend and she doesn’t like the way you’ve been acting. He could have stopped her from doing that shit but he is enjoying the attention he is getting from both of you. Khel raha hai wo tumhare saath trust me mai khud ek aise situation me reh chuki hu jaha wo 2 saal mera bewakoof banata raha. You need to stand up for yourself and ask him to leave her or leave you.

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Anonymous

I blocked him. Because the sad part is he said I won’t block her.

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Anonymous

And I’m sorry for what you have to go through. I hope you are okay now

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Anonymous

You deserve so much better and I know the process won’t be easy. But samjho ki tum isse kayi upar ho.

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Anonymous

Ha us baat ko kaafi time hogya. It took me a very long time to get over him but once I did maine bohot grow kara apni life me and trust me all he did was to pull me back.

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Anonymous

What kind of relationship is this,? If you are jealous of someone he should take care of it, instead of telling you that you are overreacting

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Anonymous

How are you holding up?

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