Guys Help!, so i’m 15 and i wanted to be in a relationship but every girl that i like and confess to reject me… My friends been telling me to get a girl but i’m like nah that’s just a waste of time, i gotta focus on my dream for now. But deep inside i wanted to be in a relationship but i just cant get a girl and i don’t wanna start liking and confessing to girls cause like i’m traumatised from everything that have happened to me, i’m a good, smart guy but for girls its like i’m just not good enough… What should i do?
Aditi Mondal @aditi1250
You should focus on your studies, hobby and dreams… Achieve your dreams you’ll be more Happy than being in a relationship … And secondly maybe now you’re not understanding but later on you’ll understand it’s really just a waste of time cause going in a relationship is not a game. To go in a relationship you need to love a person and love isn’t something that you should find by yourself love will come to you by itself… So yeah forget all this … In this time puberty hits and these kind of thoughts are normal but don’t get driven by these kinds of thoughts!!
Thanks for your advise
Just don’t think about getting a girl because of peer pressure. If you do love a girl it is not necessary that you need to be in a relationship you can be happy even if you are friends with her. Moreover, give more importance to your studies and family.
Thanks for your advice
Oh boi, isn’t this a common teenage problem. Seeing other people in relationship and u feeling deep down wishing to be in one too… But being in relationship is no as good as being single. Infact rn if u even come in one do you think you can devote that much time to it? 15 is a very ripe age and maybe you will be giving boards or be class junior or senior, and rn maybe concentrate on urself. It’s very hard but it will be there for a little while only. U have ur own dreams and ambitions, try to chase them. Maybe if a sensible girl sees it then she will chase for u. And that’s the right fit. Also I’m saying this from my perspective but you mostly concentrate on ur studies and if u don’t then then u do it on the girl whom u r in relo with and after a while you either get really attached to her or really detached and it starts to make you imagine stuff and starts to make you angry , anxious and miserable.
See… I’m not saying being single is best option but try to find someone whom u r much more compatable with. Try to find someone who understands you and with whom you feel safe and comfortable. Take your time and find someone who knows and loves you for YOU!!
Thank you so mucj for your advice it made me feel great
Not required buddy… :D