Going through divorce. Complicated divorce proceedings. Father in law MF full of lies

ilan

Imagine being an accessory for this suggestion if they take it seriously 
🤣 Lmfao 💀

Wow that's amazingly optimistic
Way to go bud 

I can understand!! Its hard time …stay strong !! But y do they have to lie ..now that .. its ending 

Mf planned the marriage for alimony and assets. Idiot me😞

Divorce

I just want to open up now , I’ve bottled up this for so many years now that I’ve been sexually abused by my dad at home and by two boys at school . My parents never taught me how to differentiate what is good touch and what is a bad touch . My dad abused me and I didn’t know what was happening with me ... i was abused by a boy in class 2 nd that other boy in class 3rd ... they touch me on my legs and then try to go inside my skirt i tried to stop them but i  was so scared to tell anyone so i was ashamed of what’s happenin With me , that time I didn’t know what to tell to my parents . I’m going to turn 20 now but i still have dreams where my dad is haunting me 😭 i just don’t know what to do . I have live with that man in the same house with a happy face i just want to forgot allll of thisss😭i just want to forgottttttty thisss .. sometimes i cry myself to sleep coz when where my dad comes in my dreams these things came all back in my mind as if it all happened yesterday only . Sometime tell me what should do 😭please tell me pleasee ..

Child Abuse

Why is it only about physical touch?😭

3am Thoughts

My cousin just told me that I should tell my girl my living situation and I’m just scared to do it, because of are argument Saturday and yeah

I am feeling very scared. The window of our washroom was broken. We thought that it might have broken due to storm. We put a newspaper properly in that place. We live in ground floor. Nearly 2 weeks ago , we noticed that the newpaper was slightly moves as if someone moved with finged. We removed the newspaper and put a hard cardboard in that place. The next day someone removed the cardboard and threw it in our backyard....we kept on giving it and someone kept on cutting it. One day we noticed that my pants which were kept in our balcony was cut with scissors in the main part. Four days ago we put a new glass in the washroom. Yesterday we went out for shopping and the glass was broken. The backside of our house is a bit dark and it has a pond . Hardly 1 meter away of that washroom is our neighbour's house. Our neighbour are very good and won't to these acts.
There are no men in my family...all are females.
My father stays abroad .

Please give some ideas to catch that man.

Family

Please don't ignore this
I need your help
Please help meee!!!!🙏🙏
I haven't told this to anyone and i almost thought that I'll carry this horrendous thing with me to my grave without anyone knowing but i really wanted to share this with someone 
So I've gathered all my courage today to tell you this (whoever's reading)
and i think this will be the first and last time I'm sharing this with someone 
•(It's little bit sensitive)
**trigger warning**
This was when i was 13. I went to one of my far away relative (i can say it was my uncle's house whom i didn't met for much long) to celebrate half of my summer vacations after completing my assignments and after spending a couple of days there, one day my sister and aunt went market for doing grocery shopping meanwhile i was watching something on my sister's laptop 
Suddenly my uncle came to me smiling and he sat near me. Seeing him smiling i also smiled at him and then again i dig my sight in my screen
Then he suddenly grabbed my hand and touched his p*
I wasn't able to understand what was happening at that time, i was like freezed, then i just suddenly stood and went to my neighbor aunt, and i just told her like i just want to spend some time with her so i came.
But you know what, that was the first time i was scared like hell and i used to respect that man a lot because he was a retired soldier from army but my  belief now just broke into smallest pieces possible 
I started to feel super insecure 
Then when my sister and aunt came home, i returned 
And still that man was looking at me with the same eyes, and when we were having dinner he even insisted me to sit on his lap, at that time i felt like i wanna run away now anywhere but i didn't want to return back
I strictly refused him
He even tried touching me many times 
This creepy things happened to me for straight 5 days when my sister and aunt used to go out for their jobs and he warned me not to tell anyone otherwise no one will believe me and they'll think that I'm just a rotten kid
Then on the 6th day he told me that i should sleep with him at night because due to me my aunt and my sister aren't able to sleep properly in sufficient space (bullshit) 
And on that day again when my aunt and sister went out then he thought of even doing something worse He tried crossing his line while i was scared and crying and i was just on the verge of getting sexually harassed but i yelled and ran away from that house 
I ran to the nearest park and sat on the swing and started crying 
After crying for an hour i went to my neighbor and told them to call my dad
I called my dad while i was crying and told him to take me back the very other day and when he asked me the reason for my crying than i just told him that i was missing him and mom so much
I wish i could forget those horrible 6 days of my life which were more than a nightmare to me
Due to that incident I've developed PTSD which my parents even don't know about and i can't even hear or watch anything about violence which happens to girls  
Because it reminds me of myself 
I never told this to anyone and i don't think I'll even share this with anyone in future because i think it can split families apart
I'm crying rn while writing this but I'm feeling like atleast someone else know what i went through
Now I'm 18 and suddenly i started getting flashbacks which is scarring and disturbing me mentally 
I'm really struggling alone inside and you know what,now I'm slowly getting tired of this struggle 
I can't say this to even my friends because who know if they start hating me 
What should i do people T_T
Moreover I'm also neet Aspirant and I'm afraid what if this can disturb my preparation 
I'm really getting mentally weak now fighting my past and anxiety and what makes it worse is fighting alone
I'm currently on a stage where i don't wanna exist anymore, what's still holding me from suicide is my family and my dream of becoming doctor 
Please help me, what should i do now to deal with this
You people taught me not to give up so can you please help this child for once more, please 
(pls don't suggest telling my parents or going to therapist because you know typical Indian household)


It started when I was in grade 6 or 7. For a teenage girl, I had no idea what was happening to me.

My harasser was a very close relative of mine. My own aunt's husband. A father of four children out of which three were girls. We lived in a joint family so it was impossible to avoid him. He started making vulgar gestures. He used to stare at my chest and lips. I was a chubby child so at the age of 13 or 14, I had breasts and everything.

The most horrifying thing he ever did was when my mother had gone outside with my aunt. My father used to live abroad. I was sleeping and he came up behind and fondled me everywhere touching me in places that weren't supposed to be touched. This continued up till grade 9 and I used to live every day in fear.

Afterward, it stopped and I had locked away those dark memories. Almost six years later, last week that man repeated his bad intentions again. That too when his family were in the next room. I was so shocked and traumatized to even move. Since that day, I've been haunted by the incidents of the past and also scared not knowing that will he start harassing me over again.


i think somethings wrong with me i was happy but this whole get raped thing is messing me up i still haven't told my parents or authorities its been a month now i told me bff but i didn't tell him the whole truth....i feel like its my fault why'd it have to happen to me....just why  im only 15 

Confusion

I was Sexually Assaulted by my cousin and his dad separately multiple times. Sad to see them around regularly unfortunately no one knows other than me. Never through a brother would do such thing to a sister. 

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