girls who used dress up games as an escape mechanism to feel pretty and good about themselves because they were made to feel ugly and unattractive growing up club

Other

Are you happy with how you’re making money? 

Work

Should I turn it all off and do anything and everything I wanna do impulsively, treat people exactly how they treat me…..

OR

should I not abandon the basic soft hearted nature of me where I’m always there for everyone even though it hurts me, which people keep taking for granted ? 

Exhausted

Very very good morning to all have a nice day ahead 😇❤️🤞to  My all frds

Caregiver

Kem choo!

3am Thoughts

Are you a :

Affirmations

I started developing feelings for my best friend. Even after knowing the fact that he is dating someone else. But i couldn't control how i feel. It went to the stage where i feel jealous of that girl he is dating. I never felt that before. I feel... feeling jealous instead of happy for your best friend is a little toxic or is it normal? I want to lose feelings for him and be happy for him. We used to talk everyday, now he doesn't even text or even answer my calls. When i aaked him if something was bothering him he is lying. Now he being my bestfriend and crush, and on top of that for some reason he avoiding me, is hurting me so so much. I cried two days consecutively. I even uninstalled insta so i dont have to be more hurt of he avoiding me. And the worst part is, he is the only person i talk to on a daily basis. Now i am just lonely, no one to talk to or tell about my day to. PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO NOT HURT MYSELF AND ACCEPT THESE THINGS CURRENTLY HAPPENING? 

Mental Health

I want a relationship more than anything but I feel I’m too upset with too much bottled up to actually sustain one 

Anxiety

I’m an insecure guy. I know it.

The story is, my girlfriend who I dated in 2019 and broke up with in 2020 came back in my life this March 2021.
We’ve had a lovely come back into this relationship since then until, I got to know she was on a week long trip with a guy and been intimate across the week with him nearly 10 days before we came back into the relationship.
My problem is, she didn’t tell me about it and chose to deny for one day before accepting it.
I feel if I was in her shoes, I would have informed her about an intimacy shared 10 days before this relationship given our rapport.
Her explanation was, she isn’t going to tell me anything about the guy or details of her association or the level of her relationship with him as she doesn’t owe this to me ‘for the period she wasn’t dating me’ [I agree with that argument].
My problem is, 1. Why hide when it was so recent ie 10 days before you patched up with me. 2. Why deny when you could have just told me.

She said, I thought you will give me a character certificate and hence I hid it. My concern about this situation is her choosing to hide it when we are planning our wedding together soon. It just gives me a sense that she may hide anything she feels ‘I may not like’ and that’s bad for a relationship. As I may get to know about it later and may kill myself for it.

Our 2019 relationship streak also broke on trust issues.

Please put some sense in me if you can. What am I thinking? Should I let go? Is she right in hiding a thing like this?

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