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Anonymous

Girls assemble.

I’m here commenting on my bf’s pics…
Because I want to make sure other girls notice that he’s taken. (Ps: cuz He has a lot of girl followers)
I’m not threatened by them, but it’s just that I want others to know that he’s mine 😭

We don’t post about us on social media, but indirectly I wanna establish it someway…that’s why I do this!!

Is this wrong?

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Anonymous

Absolutely no it’s not wrong! If he don’t have any problem

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Anonymous

He doesn’t say anything like , don’t comment or such.

Also he just likes my comment without replying.

Damn man😭 why such scenes

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Anonymous

Aww, thanks ❤️

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Anonymous

I was freaking out and thought I was toxic to do this…

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Anonymous

Guy here. I think you should talk to him . You seem jealous (it’s not bad to be jealous in these cases) .

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Anonymous

Of course I’m kinda jealous only💀

I mean, I don’t want other girls commenting on his posts as if I don’t exist. Like he has a gf girls 😭

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Or Am I being possessive

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But you know what,

I haven’t told him this, I’m worried that he will assume if I’m crazy 😭

I do get possessive for you man. But I just don’t want him to know I’m being desperate

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Anonymous

Yes i get insecurities. And I want reassurance.

Because we’re not officially in a relationship.

Of course we both love each other.

We’re taking it slow rn… but will definitely take it further!

but sometimes during this phase … it’s getting on my nerves 💀

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Anonymous

If he understands you, he won’t call you crazy. Do you want to keep relationship secret ? Some people prefer it that way

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It’s safer for both of us keeping this relationship private. At the same time, I get the urge to establish kinda indirectly

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It’s understandable.

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Anonymous

This seems pretty normal. Before my boyfriend and I made our relationship social media official, I had the urge to do this too. But I also wanted him to comment on my pictures and if he didn’t , I would feel inadequate like I’m trying too hard or something. But me commenting on his pictures did help in establishing to all the girls out there that he’s taken so it worked. Make the comments sneaky in such a way that you don’t look too desperate and please talk to him about making the relationship social media official. I did the same and we went social media official in 6 months of dating. Before that we did post stories together but never a post together. Now we’re engaged and to be married so you’re never being too pushy if you’re asking for what you want in your relationship.

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