Frndship problem
I used to share my personal family problm to my frnd now I regret it .actually I share my sister married topic once .now they keep on asking on that its keep irritating. 2 months ago sister got married actually she has done intercaste which was not acceptable in my community but stills my parents support her.so we done married rituals in private secretly .no body knows about it any of relatives and neighbours. But one of my frnd invite me on her sis wed so I thought at least i should informed her.but I told her not to share wid anyone.but I think she shared with one of my frnds actually one of my other frnd is of caste so she will share this with her parents may be…I dont know wat to do. I dont wanna spoil my frndship but for me my family comes first .
Wanna share more problems
Simran @st1199
Hello!
Even if let’s suppose she tells her parents, how will it affect your family in any manner?
We usually tell our parents everything other than our friend’s personal problems (these too are shared in some cases). But, I don’t think parents in turn try to discourage or do anything which shouldn’t be done.
Did you ask if she actually shared with anyone else? And, if yes, did you tell how you felt even after you asking her not to disclose to anybody and how you trusted her with your sister’s marriage?
Sorry I’m wriiting in hindi
Its human tendency people used to share n gossip.actually meri sis ki hone wali thi 2018 but due to some reason married won’t happen so this also I share wid her(kajal my frnd)
Mere char dosto h unmese ek mere caste ki h wo pta chalega ki sadi chupke chupke kyu ki. To ptachaleha kahi se to log bate banege ki bhag gyi hogi.krke …
Meri Dusri frnd h ritu bus usko btaya tha sadi ka .vo bhi reception wale din.
Kajal msg karejari h kya chalra h krke…I dont know kya reply du
Simran @st1199
Don’t be sorry. Hindi or English doesn’t matter.
Write in whichever way you feel comfortable. 🌈
Logo ka kaam hai baatei banana, use darke jioge toh kaam kaise chalega? Jisko jo bolna hai bolne do, tum usse apne upar mat aane do. Jab tumhe farak padhna band hojayega, vo apne aap chup hojayenge.
Unke sochne se sach badlega? Jiss bhi halat mei shadi hui ya jo bhi reason tha vo bas tumhe aur tumhari family ko pta hai, bakio se matb nhi. Kajal ko boldo sab sahi hai aur khtam kardo baat.
Details dusro ko deti hai toh barosa karne ka faida nhi uspe.
Kajl meri achi frnd h bus vo gossip krti h bahut . Ha yr me bi asey sochti hu ki boldo but baki logo ko pta chalega or ghar me vo bi mere vajah se to I feel bad.mere momdad bad m sabko btadenge .koi reason sochke.
Actually ek bar frnds humlog milne gye the to yelog mere family m aagya the kuch bolne lge the mere sister family k bare m to unko lgta h uschij ko leke m naraz hu ya invite ni kiya…but asa ni h .me sabko bulati .but meko bas mrri caste wali frnd jo h druvi uska lgra tha kiki vo mere caste kithi uskopta chljata.vo ghar me na bolde
Yefrnds log narrow minded ni h balki supportive h bus other caste h or is chij ko leke ghar me tension h vo bat meko ni share krna inse .
Mere or bhi pro blms h just want some one to listen
Mene apni lk dost ko btaya tha ritu usko sadi ka. To bolne legyi live ayegi milne kisi din .vo msg kari thi but m reply ni ki.kyuki ghar me m usko abhi ni bulana chahti…thi…sayad guess hogye hogi…
Ye chota sa matterh but family ka h. Kya karu.
Simran @st1199
Khulke apni baat kar sakte ho. Koi dikkat nhi idhar.
Simran @st1199
Abhi ab chate kya ho finally?
Kajal ne bola sach mei ya nhi, usse seedha pucha? Ya apni assumption bana rahe ho ki gossip karti hai isliye btaya hoga?
Caste vali friend hai. Jab vo puche toh btadena ki family matter tha isliye kisi ko nhi btaya aur bulaya, bas kajal isliye kyuki sabse close hai aur ghar valo ne invite kara usse.
