Friends,
What is the meaning of friends, and what we will think about frndship.
Usually all the people used to say 
Friend ship means never ending bond and no limitations and expectations .

But coming to the the reality all the people expect something and making frndship, difficult to find a true friend, 

Actually we I'll search for partners does we match each other, but now in friendship we are searching the good friend 😂, finally this is our society.

Friends

I was talking to a (male) friend about another common friend(female). I said she is very nice and out of nowhere he said that  there is a ground sky difference between her and me(he meant she is better) it made me really sad. I was only saying nice things about her.  

3am Thoughts

I think I have lost a friend and sister for forever. We are cousins and were best friends. We fought once when we were kids (only 3) but after 2 years of visits we became friends and then we became inseparable. We frequently has sleepovers at each other's house, during and family function I used to search for her so that we could sit and talk about our life, had endless conversations. 
Then came the year 2020. Tensions increased between my family and her mother's sister's family. I was afraid that the family feud will ruin our friendship. We went to a family occasion and I didn't feel the same comfort, our friendship wasn't that strong anymore. 
Everything changed within one year, we don't talk anymore. I tried initiating conversations but didn't get any reply. We didn't talk since a year. That's how a family feud ruined our friendship. Once inseparable sisters became strangers. 

Tears are rolling down as I'm writing this post. Guys, cherish every moment with your loved ones, who knows it might not last forever. I have lost a lot of people and in general I'm not lucky with friendships as I end up losing precious people. 

hi everyone, I need some advice. my BFF is self-harming herself, I don't know what to do and I am worried about her, any help?

Self Harm

my best friend left me, we were originally the same boarding school but then he moved. And we live in different cities, I feel anxious because I only feel that she understands me the most in the dorm

I am sleepy but I don't wanna sleep..
I am procastinating and feeling guilty abt it but it but don't wanna do anything abt it...
 A friend that I prioritised recently told me while she was having breakdown and I was there consoling her cause her friend from school who hav hurt her is hurting her again...and she tells me that she has a friendship of 8 years with that friend and it's not like I met her before 3 months through online or something and I don't understand where I went wrong but that statement pained me but she was already going through something so I just kept listening to her until she felt better and me miserable

should i cut this friend off?

So I (19,F) and her became close in the first year of uni, when her (lets call her A, 18) ex flatmates bullied her into leaving their flat so she moved in with me. Our dads are really close friends back home so there's that. Our families also live in the same city.

A bit of background on A: she's too quiet, the kind of person you wouldn't even notice. socially awkward, and really really introverted. Me and her were opposites but I guess that's what made us so close back then.

So I'm generally a very outgoing person an have quite a few friends in different social groups which was good for A because she was practically an outcast after her ex flatmates threw her out and started spreading rumors about her calling her weird etc. So she meets her now boyfriend through me (lets call him M). M was one of my first friends ever in uni and we were super super close.

Come the time for finals, and we study our asses off and go back home. When we get our results, I passed and A failed. Of course she was going through a tough time having to live with her family who weren't sympathetic towards her so I tried to be there for her as much as I possibly could, checking up on her, helping her out with the resit exam etc. During this time she broke with her boyfriend, M.

Now in second year, she's not completely over M and she keeps crying about how he wont talk to her and etc so of course I advice her to move on, and that he's not good for and she deserves better. Turns out they end up getting back together and she tells him everything I told her about him and made it sound like I was against them dating or something. I was only trying to be a good friend and didn't wanna see a very close friend of mine get hurt again. So M gets angry at me and stops talking to me for months. It pissed me off because M was my friend first and A met M because of me and she ruined our friendship??? anyway this doesn't end here.

earlier this year in Feb, i was going through a lot, it was one of the darkest parts of my life. I fell out with my friend group due to one toxic narcissistic friend (this is another huge story) who started spreading rumors about me (one of them was that i apparently lied about being sexually assaulted). I was legit depressed and suicidal. This person was literally doing a whole smear campaign against me to make me seem as bad as possible in front of everyone. A messages me (WE LIVE TOGETHER SHE COULD'VE JUST TALKED TO ME BUT NO) and tells me to leave her and her boyfriend out of unnecessary drama. That hurt me so much because i was there for her during her worst time (when she failed) and this is how she treats me when I'm going through shit.

right now i'm stuck with her because of quarantine and she barely if ever makes the effort to talk to me, always has her headphones on in the common area as to avoid talking to me, stays in her room all the time. This just makes me feel like she got what she wanted out of me (support when needed, and one of my friends as a boyfriend) and doesn't need me anymore so she won't put in the effort. What does all of this sound like to you? I feel like I should just distance myself without saying anything rather than confronting someone as selfish as her.

Anxiety

my friend has depression so i want to help her so but i don't know how and i am afraid that i might do something that makes her feel worse. any tips?

Depression

Not Okay, I feel like I'm the one who is causing her a mental breakdown every time I open up my feelings for her. I know she had a lot of friends and I don't want her to lose them. I'm just saying that I get jealous sometimes and probably I'll be okay but it turns out that she misunderstood me and start asking me what will be my life without them? what would be my social life?

I just said that I'm jealous in a good way but it turns I just made her annoyed and angry.Not Okay, I feel like I'm the one who is causing her a mental breakdown every time I open up my feelings for her. I know she had a lot of friends and I don't want her to lose them. I'm just saying that I get jealous sometimes and probably I'll be okay but it turns out that she misunderstood me and start asking me what will be my life without them? what would be my social life?

I just said that I'm jealous in a good way but it turns I just made her annoyed and angry.

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