For those who think you’ll never get over your love, I assure you, you would. It wouldn’t be spontaneous, but it would gradually and one day you’ll be like “what? What happen to the butterflies in the stomach”. 
Hang in there. You’ll get over that person eventually. 🌸

3am Thoughts

Hello 
I am writing for the first time so please correct me if I am wrong. 
I am not feeling good. I am sad and hurt. And the reason is that I thought the person I cherished and value the most does value me and respect me but I was wrong that person just kicked out me from his life. Without any reason.I considered that person as my best friend but that guy judged me and called me ugly I know I should have left him and never looked back but I grew so attached that now it's hurting me a lot. I am feeling more sad by realizing the fact that he doesn't even care and here I am feeling sad and lonely I think he didn't even considered me as his friend I was just a last option as he always said and I made him my priority. I know I should be angry but all that I feel is sadness. 

I feel very upset and small and insignificant.
My boyfriend of 4 years, I found him cheating last year and it broke my heart he flirts with a lot of girls and ignore it but when I found him cheating I tried tp break up but he started crying and told me excuses and I stayed. But at this point I still feel very broken. It makes me think about the years and efforts I put into the relationship, I lied to my parents to meet him and they've lost trust in me now. I could never meet him a lot because my parents are strict and I blamed myself for why he talked flirted with many girls. I feel like he'll never understand the amount of strength it took for me to stay in this relationship after everything he's done. I don't really know what I'm doing in this relationship anymore I've cried myself to sleep so many nights and I can't share this anybody and feel so lonely.

Boyfriend

It's been 2 years since I had my breakup and I've been trying to move on ane make peace with my past. But after every 3-4 months he tries to contact me and I couldn't resist myself to reply. He shares his emotions and problems and then vanish the next day. It Hurts and I always feel like moving back to square one. It's mentally very disturbing. I don't feel exhausting anymore.  At times I feel like , I'm always there when he needs me within minutes and when I share something he won't even reply.

Breakup

It was his mistake but a small one he thinks i have a breakdown and I'm ghosting him like i did before. I love him so much and we are friends he cannot even think that i like him but i really wanna talk to him. I have exams in few days and i don't need distraction but not talking to him and thinking about him is still a distraction should i text him he said take your time I'll always wait for you love you❤ now wtf i love him he doesn't know this and him saying love you casually gives me butterflies he thinks i hate him but i can't ever hate him I'll text him after my first exam i don't want him to stay alone because he had me and I'm acting like this will hurt him a lot. See i think a lot about him why don't he thinks like that...? But wait i like him and he doesn't. Ok I'm going back to study bye😩

I am all messed up I don't know what should I do maybe you guys can help. I love this guy so much and he too has feelings for me and yesterday we fought and I said something which he misunderstood and said that he's leaving me. I cried whole night. I told him that he means a lot I told him everything about my fears, my insecurities my feelings everything and he said let's not talk again but then today's morning itself he said sorry he apologized and promised me that he will not hurt me again he asked for second chance and I accepted his apology because honesty I love him too much to let him go but now I am scared what if he'll leave me again. I don't know should I stay and try with him again or should I move on and start fresh. 

It's been four months since I broke up with my
ex boyfriend, before him I had two long lasting
relationships (4 and 2years) and I met him by
chance, at first everything felt perfect as if
every piece of us was matching and I was
scared, I didn't want to get too attached but
then I fell Inlove with him, he was older than
me and he had the life I wanted to, he used to
live alone, had a good job and we have started
to create a life together mostly because he
was pushing me talking about living together,
creating a family and many things. I've always
looked for someone who wants to settle down,
that's why he was perfect, we matched each
other, he was looking to a family and ... I felt
happy but this didn't last long. He started to
mentally abuse me, we've descriverei to have
different ideas about life and he started to tell
me that I was wrong, I was needy, I was a
terrible person and nobody could love me just
because I was jealous of him taking home his
nine years ex and maybe sleeping together or
hiding while talking with him or just because
we only could see each other during weekends

(I used to live 2hr far away from him I live in
Italy and he lives in Switzerland) and I wanted
to stay close or just cuddle in the sofa and he
kept telling me that I was needy and taking all
his space that he needed space and so I kept
asking him 'how can I give you space' and the
answer was I don't know. I kept asking him ti
talk but he didn't he avoided everything and
only spoke about space, I need space and time
for me as if it was my fault for everything.
I lost 4kg and I couldn't stop crying because I
loved him but we couldn't understand each
other anymore, he created a wall hiding
behind 'it's not your fault but it's me that l'm
stressed and tired but to issues of life'. I've
started therapy, I felt completely lost and
awful, I felt as if I really didn't serve love and I
was a bad person as if what he kept saying
was true. My therapist made me realise who
abusive this relationship was and one night I
was crying myself out because we had to see
each either the next day but I didn't have the
strength to fight another time for no reason
so I called him telling him to stay where I was

that I love him more then myself but I couldn't
go on like this, that if we want to try to be
together we should find a compromise
because I'm the only one hurt and in the end
he dated that he cared about me but he
couldn't but mostly wouldn't change for me, as
if I've asked him to change (compromises and
self space were essential for him like he could
do whatever he wanted to but I can't say a
word about it) so I've told him that it was over.
He' e asked to to pack his things back and
send him and he did the same to my stuff and
I didn't hear him anymore. Not a word.
All of this just because now I'm happy, I feel
better and my life is going on, my life at
university is cool, I'm going out with my
friends and doing a lot of activities and I feel
better but I'm still madly Inlove with him. I got
my heart broken for the first time even if our
relationship was short I've lived with him, we
spent time together, I've designed his new
house (I'm an architect) and after we broke up
I did a lot of things that he said I couldn't
because I wasn't 'enough' but still I want to tell
him that I did them and happily hug him and
kissing him and staying together just chatting
and watching anime as we did when we first
met. I can't hate him, I can't forget what we
dated and I can't go on. I keep thinking about
how much he made me feel bad but I can't
forget the beautiful times that we spent
together walking along the lake and going
home, cooking for him and see his smile or
making jokes that only us can understand. I
miss him and I don't know what to do.
Sorry for this long message, do you have any
suggestions on how I can get over him?


Love

Okayyyyyy......
So I caught feelings for someone random stranger on an app called chatous, And I feel stupid. I feel so because of the following reasons :
1) I met him online, I have never met this person in real life 
2) he is in different country, hell different continent 
3) sometimes I doubt whether he is a real person or not because he is 20 and does not have any social media account.  Suspicious? 
4) he has this annoying habit of just vanishing for days and replying to my 4 day old text as if he wasn't Mia.  Like dude if you busy say so,  if you are about to sleep say so,  but don't keep me hanging,  because I have feelings for you so I'll wait for your text even thought I'll have to wait for hours and I hate myself for thatttt... Ughhh 
5)  sometimes he's all sweet and all and is like move here, as if it's so simple and I just don't know. 
Like do I trust him or is it just some another 50 year old. We have been taking since July 2020 and it's April 2021 now . Help me out here guys I'm so confused. 
He also says that when this Covid situation is all better he will visit me, and I'm scared that he turns up to be some scamster, but I kinda like him. 
I'm soooooooooo stupidddddd

Crush

1 month before i got married, its arranged marriage, now i am regretting it, bcoz i don't have feelings towards him, nd i want to get separate, my parents are blaming me for this, also scare of consciousness after separation like no one accept me nd currently dont want to be with him, plz suggest 

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