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Having emotional fatigue ?🤷‍♀
A lot of my clients in mid to late twenties coming with this trending emotional fatigue  due to this unforeseen hook up culture.🤦‍♀
wherein the one partner is getting attached and is coming up openly and the other is not ready to accept it completely except the physical  benefits.well, my dear,dating is not everyone's  cup of tea.💁‍♀ Especially,  when moves are planned strategically. You could get the fatigue after a lot of emotionally unstable realtionship.
Despite having good sex and everything, you would end up  questioning yourself where are the other stuff ?chasing over getting that pleasure is okay but what about intimacy and stability. 🙆‍♀ 
With everything being said,I am in no sense saying don't go on such apps but know yourself better before trying or experimenting something like that  and being authentic and honest  could be the things that  could savesave you from the post traumatic dating events if any occurs. ( hopefully, no. 🤦‍♀️)Also,there is no wrong or right moves in any scenario,whatever feel authentic to you, continue it with the real genuine connection.Being pushy could be the least attractive thing that you can do.
Alas, everything boils down to self awareness,sweet.🙋‍♀️
ps : it's not even my cup of tea,rather  my coffee :pyou do you,learn from the lessons. :)


Adulting

Feeling a bit lonely, anxious and sad. Would anyone want to talk to me for a while

Hiiii anyone from chennai?

Confusion

im scared of the dark and reality and need someone to hold me

Other

I feel like academic validation can only save me now. I feel so bad.😔 You know while growing up I wasn’t good at anything, literally anything, you name it and I couldn’t do it. I wasn’t smart. The one thing I was only good at till 2016 was studies and then what happened, studies also left me. Imagine a kid who’s in top 3 of the class would fail. I started failing from from 10th standard. My mental health was shit in class 9 and class 10. I couldn’t do simple things like riding a scooty. I was so bad at it. I was so bad at dancing. Actually I was bad at every physical activity be it sports such as basketball. People would make fun of me in school. Boys called me a sl*t in class 9 with no fault of mine, just because I was a lil more fashionable (maybe) as compared to other girls. I stopped talking to boys. I would rather fear them, avoid them as much as I can. My mental health was shit. Imagine a 14 year old going through all this. Now I’ll be 21 in few days. And I miss that little girl who was good at studies. Studying was the easiest thing for her till 2016. She always excelled. Now, let’s switch to 2023. Now, actually I went for college in different city. And I finished my undergrad and came back home. It has been 7 months since I have come back home. I have an elder sister who’s an year and a half older than me and she is pretty and every relative would just always praise her looks. Every time we get ready together, I already know that she’ll be looking prettier than me. Actually guys here won’t understand. When you and your friend or sibling who’s same as your age would get ready together and come out of the room together and everybody is just complementing your sibling, making you feel invisible. It doesn’t feel good, not at all it does. You always feel sidelined by your own relatives. There’s always competition and for God’s sake I am done competing Actually the thing is that since I am staying that’s why it’s happening and with me. Once I’ll go to college for postgrad, it won’t matter much to me. But I need to study for getting a good college and because of this weird feeling and anxiety inside me, I spend my whole day on phone. I want to study, get in a good college, be independent, earn my own enough money that I don’t need validation from anybody. I want to be so happy living my life that I stop caring about people. There’s so much more I feel like writing but whatever it is, it’s fine🙂

Anxiety

I want to delete this app because nothing is helping me here. All i see is people making fun of other people's thoughts. And besides there are few motherfuçkers who only want to have a relationship with a minor. Litterly I've been asked out by so many pedos here. This app is really stupid. It doesn't help me at all. It's just like another burden.

damn, it's so crazy what love does to you. you honestly go from being so lonely and not liking anyone and being okay with being single to falling head over heels in love with someone. it's that kinda love that is so innocent, it's the kinda love where i want to be around you always i always want to feel your touch. i love the way our hands fit together like the perfect puzzle piece, the way it feels when you hug me, it's the spark that goes off in my stomach every time i see you or touch you. being with you and around you is like a drug and i'm never coming down off that high because that, that is the best feeling in the entire world , obv my crush won't be reading this but anyways y'all can take notes 

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