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Anonymous

first of all sorry if this topic sounds like its not something to be talked about here this is my first day

im currently a senior in high school, iโ€™ve never been in a relationship. some people would find it normal actually. but my friends make fun of me because, (at least they say i am), i am quite good looking, a nice person, and has a great personality.

iโ€™ve already tried to get to know two girls and it was actually okay. but in the end those two girls never really were in a relationship with me because i backed off. i backed off because iโ€™m scared that i would fall for another girl in the middle of the relationship.

i talked about this with one of my friends and he said that the real reason i always back off is that iโ€™m scare of what a relationship actually feels like. since quarantine this has been on my mind. does anyone have the same issue? how can i get rid of the things that hold me back?

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First thing, if you are really in a relationship, u wouldnโ€™t fall for other girls. Because being in a relationship is totally different. u wonโ€™t be able to think of someone else. u will always long for her. when u r in a relationship, u will feel satisfiedโ€ฆ stay in a relationship with someone with whom u really love. donโ€™t just be in a relationship for the sake of it . I think it is better to stay single, rather than staying in a relationship with someone u have mixed feelings for.
Atleast thatโ€™s what I think. Hope it helped u๐Ÿ˜‰

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Anonymous
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wow great point
yeah i think iโ€™ll just wait until i find someone who i really fall for

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Dhadkan @angel14

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Absolutely ๐Ÿ‘!!! ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ™

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Nandani @nandani

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listen โ€ฆ(ur name),
its normally an issue for all the eligible persons who are not in a so called relationship. Now-a-days being in a relationship is a new cool. But u got to know one thing โ€ฆ its not a compulsion!!!
so donโ€™t take it as a pressureโ€ฆ
Itโ€™s normal
if we are happy with our lifeโ€ฆ then why to complicate?
Why to enter into any relationshipsโ€ฆ as its not going to work.
So be happy and donโ€™t complicate ur life!๐Ÿ™‚

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