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what does your definition say bro?

im the post author so i do have a definition about it, first let me know yours

even the word feminism is sexist. observe

to me its that all genders should have equal rights. and the word feminism and the feminists posing themselves as victims creeps me out

dont brand me or infact anyone by just listening to their one or two statements. try to understand other’s point of view. LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND DON’T LISTEN TO ANSWER

yes, i considered myself a feminist 5 years ago. read a lot, researched a lot, like genuinely a lot probably for like 2-3 years and then i have made. up my mind

and that’s precisely when women were branded as the oppressed gender by giving them handful of rights and laws in their favour. I am a person who finds no difference between a man, woman and a trans other than some physical differences

yeah there are so many differences which i intended to engulf in some physical differences but you cared to pin point it out. generally men tend to have more physical strength than women and men are more emotional than women. dont confuse emotinal… what i meant was “Most researchers agree that women are more emotionally expressive, but not that they experience more emotions than men do. Some studies have shown that women are more likely to produce inauthentic smiles than men do, while others have shown the opposite.” says wikipedia. cornering those NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING can or should stop two humans from having equal rights be it their brain, body or upbringing

and to our despair, we dont have equal right. neither do men have equal rights nor females and feminism my friend is fighting for rights of women. now tell me mate, why shouldnt i say feminism is sexist

forget about other men, i was raped when i was a minor. and on saying this what i listen is, “tumhe toh maza aaya hoga” it fucking scarred me

sexist is nothing of that sort. it simply means to discriminate on the basis of your sex

people use feminism to discriminate against men

yeah i will, as i am not making a blind blatant statement.
first of all lets start with the word itself “feminism”, what do you feel reading this word? It’s derived from the word Feminine which denotes females and thats initially when the purpose of feminism WHICH WAS MEANT TO BE EQUALITY is defeated, let alone the definition of it. Secondly coming to the purpose of feminism. According to International women’s development agency, “feminism is about all genders having equal rights and opportunities. It’s about respecting diverse women’s experiences, identities, knowledge and strengths, and striving to empower all women to realise their full rights.” the first line is absolutely what a human deserves be it a man, woman, or any other gender. in the second line it again starts about women, the line is clearly self centred and so is this movement. I’ve read and researched a lottt like a lottt about this before making up my mindset. It started as a movement against the oppression faced by women which by the was again self centred and flourished as the same which is now more sexist than ever.

dont beat around the bushes by saying “mankind” and not “mother earth”. these are just terms that are used and many of them are masculine based and many feminine based. right now we are talking about a movement which imposts of being the flag bearer of equality. men are suffering and blamed for just being men and that too on a daily basis. talking of slut shaming manspreading and mansplaining are terms and there are none for the other genders. so judgement for the way they are sitting or what they are speaking exists for men too.
talking of pay gaps, I do not deny its existence. i believe the more money you bring in to a company, the proportional you deserve and thats why female strippers are paid more than male strippers and male cricket/football team earns more money than their female counterpaarts

I think you have had a personal bad experience with women somewhere which has caused you to develop such a strong opinion about them.
I’m assuming you’re well off and not in the poor category. So pls go and visit rural areas and see the situation of women there. Talk to them. It’s terrifying. There’s a huge huge need of women empowerment coz it has not even reached everywhere. There are 8 billion people and don’t think about this issue just from the point of view of the city you were surrounded by. There are millions and millions in other cities which you have not visited and seen how women are treated there. for eg. in tokyo the so called biggest and developed city. you have no idea how much sexism is there and millions more in places where they cannot speak up and if women empowerment keeps growing they might get a chance to stand up for once. And yeah sometimes it is misused but for 1 time it’s misused there’s almost 100s of times it helps so pls consider that.