Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

True but I have become fond of people like now I have finally learned the art of letting go being happy and not have feeling of resentment against anyone because everyone have different life journey and we don’t what they have gone through. So as human it’s better to help someone out rather than hating them for what they are otherwise there is no meaning to humanity.

No letting go is give someone space see everyone have a different life story if you won’t give them space they will only get frustrated and you don’t want that you want your peace of mind and theirs also. Because life is too short to waste your mental strength on these things and in the end you will always regret that rather than putting so much brain on these things and overthinking I would have enjoyed my present I would have enjoyed that moment.

If you are soulmates or meant to be that person will come around that depends what kind of love you have. And honestly speaking you develop love the unselfish kind after 25 years of marriage that is love seriously not joking at all. But yeah if that person is your life partner they will come around without either of you making any efforts. Because love should be effortless you will make compromises without second guessing. Only if there is love if there is only attraction it will go away in few months.

My story my friend story my parents story etc etc… 😊
But love start after 25 years of marriage when you can’t dream of living without each other and I have examples of that because I have seen. Now that we call love that is beautiful

See for me at was not love but attraction but what i saw I knew a couple who were married for 25 years it was an arrange marriage and they use to fight they use to argue they use to also laugh together and loved each other but most of the time they use to fight so this year the husband died because of covid but the wife was well and she had two kids who were I guess 24 and 26 year old. So the wife could not bear the husbands death and she became sick she stopped eating she use to cry all day and she also passed away. Even though that couple use to fight all the time and argue.
Coming to my parents I have seen the worst relationship in my life they fight they taunt each other one dominates other they will kill each other as if but in the end of the day when I ask my father why do you fight with her he says to tease her and he can never think about living without her and same goes with my mother after abusing him she also says the something I can’t dream about living without your father I will die if something will happen to him this is a 25 years of marriage which had reallllllyyyyyy rough start like they could have ended up in divorce in the first two year of marriage so they developed love after the marriage 😊💕

About my parents my father is a divorce lawyer and I have a very modern family my parents stayed together because they thought we can do this otherwise my mother would have asked for divorce because it was never about social norms. And my entire family is very upfront about these things. Another example of you want then there is also a couple who have been married for 3 years and the wife became pregnant recently during this covid pandemic they were living in Delhi and btw they had an arranged marriage. So the son he traveled to Delhi to see his parents during covid and he became covid positive he was hospitalised because of severity while his wife was in Delhi and the man lost all hopes because he was in isolation and he could not see his wife and he passed away and the wife after hearing the new she had a miscarriage with lot of complications and she also could not survive the surgery. Both of them lost hopes because they were apart from each other during the worst situation of their life. You lose hope when you don’t have someone who you love or who you care about around you .

It is increasing I guess 1 in 3
Because people after 6 months of marriage are ready to kill each other and I know a lot about that because I read case files that’s what I do when I am bored it’s really interesting

It’s not scary at all
It’s beautiful just that it requires time and everything becomes alright
Because everyone needs a partner you can’t grow old alone

Exception is if you are rich then you problem can

You are married?

Then why do you want to put so many efforts ? After marriage toh you have to ? And if u love her so much that you are ready to put efforts marry her do it

Arrange marriage main pyaar develop hojata hai slowly but you need to give it time

Hojata hai agar usse insaan ka sath pura din sham and raat spend karna hai har waqt same insaan ki shakal dekhni hai and uska life ka sara phase dekhna hai Toh you will start caring and you will start feeling attached and in love

But aisa attachment jo infatuation nhi khelata hai which is equal to loving someone that you lose hopes when they leave you