
Feeling hurt...been out of an abusive marriage... coping with mom responsibility, job and a career lift..was so down and lonely..was in an app to vent about my situation... wanted atleast a good friend..but guys are just trying to get attached in some other way after a while even promising things but I am not ready to be played on....it hurts 


Iam just 18.. So can we be good friends? 

Bullying

Hey 

Boyfriend

Don't curse others one day everything is gonna come back to you. 

3am Thoughts

Hey guys
i am in a sticky situation.  and i need your advice (please be 100% honest with me even if it hurts or its bad)

My uni requires me to take internship for at least one month. so my two bestfriends closest people to me in uni, we always do things together. Such as group projects or anything related to uni. Now one of them got the required internship but she got two places only and can't get no more. SO, she told me to go with her and send my CV. But i feel so guilty for my other bestfriend. I really really do. Since she always thinks about me, and told me that she was looking for a place for us. I feel SELFISH! and i don't know what to do?
I mean people told me when it comes to jobs and future, you need to be more selfish especially if its an unique and big opportunity that will help when i graduate and start working in my CV. i am confused on what should i do?
i also tried asking other people to help me in getting an internship at the same place but till now no luck.. if you were my place.. what would you do?
please i need help i feel really guilty :')

Anxiety

Hi, i hope you all are safe and happy
If i talk about myself i don't to how to describe my feelings and how i am feeling right now.

The reason being my career, i am 21 years old and just completed my graduation i did my bachelor in Journalism and mass communication as the pass one and half years went with online classes i wanted to take another gap year to attend physical classes when the sistution gets normal, i told my dad everything i also showed him a plan on how am i gonna utilize this gap year, but he doesn't want to understand, according to him it will effect my opportunities while applying for jobs, and i don't to know what to do i really wanted a break to sort things out for myself, to become mentally stable but i don't know how to convince my dad there is a constant pressure on me and now its getting hard for me to cope up with it, please tell what can i do, is it really gonna effect my career if i take a gap year.

Career

Tbh right now I'm in a situation in life where I need to decide on either continuing my studies or start earning money. 

Context lijiye: Basically, I'm preparing for a competitive exam and for that you really need to work hard. Also, I rejected two decent job offers just to focus on the preparation. 

Meanwhile, I have been doing freelance content writing for a few years and l am making a decent amount of money out of that. To abhi I'm in a dilemma. Should I leave the freelancing thingy as it is taking a toll on my studies or should I focus on the exam jiska success ratio is very low. 

Any suggestion?



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Narcissism

Today I've been feeling down. I've been thinking about the way that I am, my personality, the way that I react to situations, especially stressful situations, mainly because I'm in college right now, and I feel like I'm not good enough, as if I'm not even average at this. Also about how the pandemic just made it all worse (or better but worse in a way?) like what if covid19 never happened? Would I have passed my entrance exam still? because it was online, and since then EVERYTHING was online and I feel like that made me even more lazy since it was easier to cheat... I don't like cheating I HATE IT, but I don't want to be kicked out... I don't want to let my parents down, I don't want to let myself down by failing all these subjects, but I'm still letting myself down by cheating haha... I just wish I was better at retaining information, I know I could understand most of the topics we're seeing but It's really hard for me to FOCUS and RETAIN the info.. then I start thinking what if all of this is the product various events of my childhood, did i hit my head hard as a kid when playing with my brothers? was I not raised the right way? did certain traumatic events really affect me that much? Bruh, like seriously why is it hard for me to not procastinate, I take procrastination on another level for real. why is it hard for me to open up even with the people who are supposed to be the closest ones to me? or why is it hard for me to say what's on my mind? speak up when something is bothering me? to ask for help? to say sorry? to hold a conversation? to show care for others? clean my room... eat healthy food... post pictures, even sharing memes on my socials it's kinda hard like wtf XD??? I could go on... I see people, younger people, older people, people my age, who do all these stuff so effortlessly. like they have ACTUAL lives and I'm heres stuck in my room with no experience and zero knowledge... also whenever someone asks me out I literally try to avoid it at all costs, lmao even joining a freaking discord call or participating in online classes can be hard for me... sending voice messages, CALLING MY PET when someone's around?!!! like everything that has to do with using my voice out loud in ANY circumstances i try to avoid, seriously what happened to me???? why am I like this??? I seem to be stuck in my body, my personal and safe space, my mind... I want to have more experiences, I don't want to be afraid,idk at least be brave enough to acknowledge my fears and still move on, live an actual life, but I guess i don't really know what I want in life

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