Feel a bit used and cast aside and totally confused by a guy. I suffer from anxiety and low self esteem and he was very flirty. We both were. At where he worked. Hospitality. It was cute. Exchanged numbers, some okay and flirty texts. But then I was initiating all communication. I have suggested coffee and to meet up for drinks and I get excuses from him to not meet up. It’s been months and still nothing. I’ve stopped messaging but I still feel like I’m doing something wrong by not messaging and not giving him the benefit of the doubt even though he’s not making any effort. I just don’t get it. I’ve done nothing wrong. He’s asked me a lot about me but he can also find this out and more if we go out. I just don’t get how the tap got switched to cold so fast. He works nearby where I live so just when I get him out of my head I see him and the overthinking starts up again. I’m not good when it comes to guys and relationships and I never like anyone so it’s thrown me.
If ur so much worried about him, go and say hello…it will help u clear your doubts. In hospitality industry, people are generally upfront about it…good luck
Just leave him… don’t feel bad…do you still talk to your all school friends…no naa… because In our life everybody has some role to play at some time…and then they go…not all your become your best friends…then why you are worrying about this guy…??
How are you doing rn
Honestly very indifferent. But I won’t lower my standards for someone who doesn’t make effort. Going to an event at his work in a few weeks so we’ll see how he interacts with me then. I don’t mind a flirt with him, I’m proud that I put myself out there, I never do, so even though he didn’t, at least I tried. But I won’t chase.
That’s a really good outlook to life tbh …I’m glad you’re doing good 😊
Thankyou, it does get lonely at times but I’d rather be lonely than settle 🤷🏻♀️