Everytime when i need to talk to anyone I see no one around not family nor friends…
Since last few days i was feeling completely numb…
Its not first time someone called out on my character for having someone in past or having male friends in my life…
Coz people who really meant a lot for me are doing this with me…
I don’t say I don’t make mistakes but calling out on something you never have done is way too hard to digest…
Is it really crime to have friends who understand you from other gender???
I don’t say I am in toxic relationship with anyone, but alteast show some respect towards being a human…
I have never hurt anyone intentionally, but if i do i cry like baby still no one believes me…
Is it really bad to trust, love, care, be human or be a kind person…
same here but in male form
I feel you man…
Whats your story…
Priya @unicornnnn
I m a girl too and majority of my friends are men. People will judge you, criticize you and try to bring you down because they didn’t get the same opportunities or pleasures in life so Who’s winning at life ? YOU. its not people who judge your character- it is their own insecurities.
i have faced the same situations so feel free to connect.
AND ONE MORE THING - If they don’t feed you, fuck you or pay your bills, then their opinions doesn’t matter !
But it does hurt you somewhere when you have been together for long…
I get mad i hurt myself n its not even worth it…
N its not like he don’t have any female friends, he even flirts with them, i dn’t judge; healthy flirting is ok i agree…
But when it comes to me his insecurities gets at peak…
I just feel that if i am at fault…
I knw me better but its about tiny bit of trust, if i’ll start what he does, he’ll burn out of jealousy…
Priya @unicornnnn
when you can clearly understand that if you do the same things as him- he will loose his cool then you know you’re with the wrong person. the foundation is missing. where is the trust and understanding. if he got into a relationship with you- he might have liked your personality ? otherwise whats the point ? did he just liked you for your pretty face ? well then let him know-its not permanent. if he accepted your beauty the he needs to accept all your traits and your habits and your flaws. and trust me these insecurities become toxic with time. if your friends and family don’t judge you for your choices in life the he is just a temporary boy. One day you’ll meet a man who will make you fall in love with yourself and you will look back and think how stupid you were.
and girl don’t wait for a man, you are everything you need ! YOU are ENOUGH
People will judge you and say harsh things which is their thinking and mindset but believe me it’s nothing wrong don’t let anyone change.the way you think they aren’t worth it even if it’s your close ones you deserve to talk to anyone regardless of gender and everything.
