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3am Thoughts

Hey 
Anyone studying law?? 

Society

Any law student here?

Career

What are the lessons you are learning Right now ? 

Any Lawyer here? 

All the thing is described in my @ name ... 

Here it is. I’m from Belgium and left for Japan where I my husband lived. I left my family and country for him. We married one year after I’ve got in Japan. I was 20 he was 27. 

I waited almost 7 years to have à proper wedding, that’s was a total disaster. 
The place where we made the wedding delayed a lot the hair set trial and make up. Finally we found out that the hair and make up artist couldn’t even don’t a simple ponytail not a proper liner wing. 
I had to don’t my hair and make myself the day of my wedding ... can you believe it ...? The day you’re supposed to be taken care of.. 
my husband spent the whole ceremony talking to his friend, he didn’t looked at me once not told me I was beautiful. He just told me «  yah your hair and make up is same than usual » YEAH ?! Maybe because I had to do it myself looser !!! 
He decided that we would arrived together at the guest room ... so no bride walk for me... I felt like he wanted all the spotlight on him ... 
he didn’t even put the ring on my finger ... the wedding staff forgot to make us sign the wedding no agreement paper which was the most important part for me .... 
how come ??? I spent all my money on this wedding and I feel like it was the worst day of my life ... it’s been over a Year now but I’m still making nightmare about it and feel so depressed... I feel like I will never have a proper wedding ... it was the dream of my life now I’m 27 and feel so old.. Sometimes I’m even thinking of getting a divorce even tho I love my husband just to get a proper nice wedding ... 

Marriage

I don't know where to go, so writing it in here. 
My husband is taking his mom with him to make her stay with us. We just got married recently. It's just one and half months. i had to stay with his mom once before marriage for 25 days, and in those 25 days, she showed me hell. I wasn't even married to him at that time. She criticized me for everything, right from how I use washroom to how i seat to my cooking.. everything. I was pursuing my PG at that time, i had to do a lot of work on my laptop, whenever i used to work for my presentations or anything, she used to taunt me about those. And now as I am married to the guy, i have to stay with the lady. She made my cry many times due to her behaviour towards me. My head is exploding. I find myself always thinking about the future scenarios when she will be here. It's just another 13days and they are gonna be here. Can't take it anymore.cant run away also. I don't know what to do. Can't talk to my husband about this also. Whenever i tried talking, he criticized me saying i have a very bad mentality. I can't take it anymore. my brain is just not working properly. I don't know where to go. 

Conflict

I m married in feburary, everything was good untill i got locked down with my in laws. I m a self dependent girl, never thought i ll have to follow stupid rules like wearing anklet banglea even when i don't want to. They send someone with my husband at my mothers home so that they can pay him some amount as milap amount. M really not sure wat to do now

I came up with a solution to give Meredith a good lesson. And I hope that it will work. ￼￼

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