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Anonymous

Everything in my life was just fine i had good friend boyfriend but i dnt know what happen to them like something really missing between us just because we are far my friends has cut bound with me and they dont contact me at all it has been 1 year . And my boyfriend house is nearby by our relation was going well too and its going to be 2 years soon but its has been week since he have not messaging me at all but when send me himself a chat list of his he was chatting with his friends like i dnt know what to say i am just speechless all those time when he was ignoring me he was chatting with others for 4 fours at afternoon i waited for him like nothing . What should i do ? i am so confused that i dnt have anyone to share i just seeking for help . I dont want to breakup cause he is the one i got after my friends he is the only person whom i share my feelings.

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@hoi

You should confront him or talk to him about it. I’m sure he’ll be willing to. As you are both in a relationship it is completely natural to panic when you stop talking for a while. Take time to also reflect what could’ve happened too. Maybe you made him upset or maybe something happened to him which caused him to stop talking. Don’t worry, I’m sure everything will be fine after you guys talk it out and your relationship will become stronger :)

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Anonymous

i tried to talk with him many times as i tried he goes off he doesnt want me to love him deeply and i dnt even knw what to do i and just thinking positively and wake up but the result is always same . but why am i only one panicking he is so claim i dont know how he say he doesnt have anyone beside . even though he never have seen my feelings for what i feel never tries to understand it also he doesnt share what is he doing yesterday i waitied for him like crazy and now he is saying that he slept early at least he could have inform so that i would have sleep early there was a lot of time u know . what i mean to say

@hoi

maybe he’s scared of the future as you said he doesnt want you to love him deeply. I think you should just tell him everything and how you feel and see how he takes it. don’t put in so much effort too as it’ll just discourage you in the long run and cause you to feel more disheartened. take time to focus more on yourself instead and do your own things to take some time of your own. it’ll feel good and it’ll give you a fresher mind when talking to him. it is understandable during this time that you may not feel as much love or anything from him as you wont be able to see him and maybe he thinks it’s really hard to communicate during this time. dont panic so much and calm down too, having a calm mind will help you to understand better :)

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Anonymous

Hey, How are you doing now? and How is life in large?

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