Shivu Sharma @shivuuu
Ever since I was a kid I used to imagine myself in situations. where I’m not inferior than others and I’m happy … this habit still stuck with me and now as a 20 year old I feel like I don’t wanna deal with this anymore
Also I have noticed I find it really hard to do anything worth in my life , I decided to learn coding , but I spend most of my time watching day in life of coder videos and stuff instead of actually getting my hands dirty in the hard part … I find it really hard to concentrate while studying ,
I either end up daydreaming or doom scrolling
It’s very fraustating because I have been trying so hard to change this
My hobbies change constantly I know a lot about a lot of topics like bike , cameras , coding , phones , tech, muscles , excercise , mind …
I searched about it in yt and I came across adhd , feel like my symptoms match with it
It kinda relieved me that it’s not all me but it also made me sad as why am I not normal…
I just want to succeed , make my parents proud , make my first gf , get my first job , but I find it really hard to achieve anything in my life
Every time I try I come back even more broken than before
People don’t like me because they know I can get better than them , but they start putting me down when they realise I ain’t got nothing going for me I’m just show
One thing i appreciate is you are trying… you are far better than others who didn’t even try once … you got broken you got failed but failure let’s us learn about something right … see after practice I know you will get better at it … make your goals your passion … like your gf … means take care of it be passionate about it … you will see things will get interesting for you… and nobody is able to concentrate in studies because it is something difficult for our mind if gets distracted easily but you need to have a strong reason to study make some goals for yourself and make this the purpose of your life and tell your mind constantly if you don’t study how bad results you are going to get in future and how bad things will turn out in that case … surround yourself with people who are intelligent in class and see how they are doing things … once you will get in competition with them you will start seeing studying like game and you will automatically concentrate to compete with them … things get difficult for everyone at some point of time but with your efforts you will overcome it … I hope may all your dreams come true and you make your parents proud … can you imagine how proud your parents would be if you achieve your goals … take things seriously and start working … and don’t mind what people are doing to you they just do what they have thinking and prospectives of life … and don’t feel inferior … one question … you want to achieve your goals because you inferior is it so?
Also I too you know in school times used to notice my symptoms and used to think I am not normal because I had social anxiety and I wasn’t able to achieve goals … I also searched my symptoms on YouTube even went to a psychiatrist that I have ADHD than he told me you got nothing like that … just that you are little sad,depressed and don’t go out much so you are like that nothing else … so it’s very common to happen when you feel like you are not good you start diagnosing yourself … but I feel like just motivate and push yourself more and you will get out of this …
Nanhi chitti jab daana lekr chalti hai
Chadhti diwaro par100 bar fisalti hai
Man ka Vishwas rago me sahas hota hai
Chad kar girna gir kar chadna na akharta hai
Aakhir uski mehnat bekar nhi hoti
Koshish krne valon ki haar nhi hoti
All the best 🫶🏼 I believe you will achieve it 🤗
Shivu Sharma @shivuuu
Thank you so much , your replies made my day , I feel so happy that someone read that entirely and spent so much time replying to me… thank you so much your comments gave me a new perspective ♥️
I am glad to know this … my pleasure 💕
Also your life has worth ,it’s important you are important… do something for yourself because you are worth it … make yourself feel important… when you will buy something luxurious from your own money and experience all that … you will be proud of yourself… and this will further motivate you to do more things in life … stay focused
💯 relatable…Same situation here… Instead of actually studying I just scroll videos related to CA how much they earn workplace fun pro and cons n blah blah… And I start daydreaming same for my degree… even my hobbies change with blink like one moment I jump for CA then I find Digital marketing intresting, then again I wanna paint… learn mandala start karate or zumba…I find every other thing intresting I wanna do all which is not possible I know… I am actually tired and coz of this I can’t focus on one particular thing… idk what exactly the problem is 😭
Shivu Sharma @shivuuu
Exactly !!! We are same 😇… I hope you top priority as soon as possible ! ♥️
It’s a good thing that you got different interests but you have to focus on one thing from which you make living right … even I go through this phase most of the time… nobody knows how to figure out… but doing something that is the most comfortable to you and gives you good salary I guess that should be priority instead of going behind everything and getting nothing out of it
