Lamoriya @shristi_sadasam
Especially for girls/women as they face deviations from expectations more often.
On the first conversation you should definitely ask for things which are important to you,people remember first encounters,especially of opposite genders and it helps in putting your things in a brighter/progressive zone later on if you feel any deviations(because these first talks appears/are/can be stated as a base but for talks done laterwards,their mind can mark something else as a base which can provide them opportunities to dilute your stand(in their mind which in turn might result in their diluted response towards such your things)/might provide opportunities to them to assert their deviations.๐ค