Ek sal phle mera breakup gya tha sanju se fir mai library join k waha ek abhishek nam k ldke se frndship huyi and he likes me. Breakup k bad bht upset thi mai bht negativity aa rhi thi usne smjhaya bht support kiya k pdho career pr focus kro ar fir jb Usne propose kiya to mai na ni kr payi. Bt i keep missing sanjuβ¦ Ab sanju waps ana chahta meri lyf me hmesa msg krta bolta jst frnd rhege bt i used to ignore him. Aaj sanju k papa k death ho gyi mujse rha n gya wo hmesa mere ups nd Downs me support kiya hai muje sambhala haiβ¦sanju bt nu krna chahta mujse Usne rply diya sympathy ni chahiye useβ¦ Pta ni q muje bht rona aa rha i missed him a lot. Gr sanju man jata hai Kuch din bad to muje kya krna chahiye us se frndship rakhni chahiye. Yr abhi k sath glt n hoga. I am totally confused about my own feelings and thoughts.
Hello,
Sanju ko aap pehle se jaante the, to islie ho sakta hai aap usey date nai karna chaho magar care karna galat nai hai. Jab aap kisi ko itne time se jaante ho to unke lie care karna normal baat hai. Abhi unke father ki death ki wajah se unki life mein mushkil time chal raha hoga, aur agar aapko koi bhi friend hota to aap uske lie zaroor care karte.
Agar aapka aur Abhishek ka relationship acha hai to aap usko saaf saaf bata sakte ho apni feelings aur wo bhi samjhega aur aapki care karega. Agar aapko lagta hai aap Sanju ke sath friends reh sakte ho aur wapas uske sath relationship mein nai aajaoge to fir to aap rakhlo, but agar aapko darr lagta hai ke aap wapas sanju ko date karna shuru kardoge agar aapne usse friendship rakhi, to aap usse baat mat karo. Apko apne future ke bare mein sochna chahie, aur jo aapke lie acha hai, ussi se relationship mein rehna chahie.
Mai wahi try jr rhi hu ki ni bt krti hu sanju se bt ye sb jnte hue k wo itna pain me hai totally broken emotionally financially mujse rha ni ha rha Uski care ar us se bina bt kieβ¦ Sanju to mujse bat hi n krta message ja reply v ni deta to main hmlog k common frnd mishu se Uske bare puchti rhti huβ¦ Ar abhishek ko jb ye pta chla usne mujse ldai kr liβ¦ Abhishek smjhta hi ni hr choti choti bat pr jhagda ar doubts krta mujprβ¦ Bar bar proof dena pdta useβ¦ Ar fir 2din bad same krtaβ¦ Mai hr jgh sanju ko block kr chuki hu usse bat hi n hoti meri bt har time mere dimag me ghumta rhta woβ¦ Rat ko so ni pati. Hr time Sirf uske thoughts aate rhteβ¦ Pichle 5salo me bht kiya hai usne mere lie esliye mai har hal me usko support ar help krna chahtiβ¦ Bt abhishek ko lgta hai ye sympathy niβ¦mai khud soch soch k pagl ho gyi hu ki kru kya maiβ¦ Kya sahi hai kya glt smjh hi n aa rha mujeβ¦ πππ
Dekho, aap sirf Sanju ko message kar sakte ho uska haal chaal poochne ke lie. Aap apni taraf se to help karne ki hi koshish kar rahe ho. Wo help lena chahta hai ya nahi, uske baare mein aap kuch nai kar sakte. Aap support kar rahe ho, wahi bohot hai. Agar ap life mein move on kar chuke hu, to aapko Sanju se bhi move on kar lena chahie aur uske baare mein zyada nai sochna chahie.
Jahan tak rahi Abhishek ki baat, usko bhi zyada possessive nai hona chahie. Usko aapki problem understand karni chahie, aur aapse ladai nai karni chahie, trust hona bohot. zaroori hai relationship mein.
Agar aapko pata hai ke aap Sanju ki help sirf as a friend karna chahte ho, aur na ki bcoz aap usko like karte ho, to fir usmein koi galat baat nahi hai aur aapko wo same cheez Abhishek ko bhi araam se samjhani chahie. Kyuki aap apne aap ko Abhishek ki jaga daal ke socho. Agar usne bhi aapko apni ex ke baare mein bataya hota, jis ex ke wajah se wo upset tha, to aapko bhi to uske lie bura lagta. Aur aap bhi shayad chahte ke wo dobara uss ex ke paas na jae jisne usko itna dukh dia hai. Apko Abhishek se direct baat karni chahie, kyuki ho sakta hai ke vo jealous na ho but balki sirf aap lie chinta kar raha ho.
