Don’t ever avoid red flags at the beginning. If you do so then you have to go through the consequences. Some people are self centred and don’t even care about people’s emotions. Be careful in this selfish world.
What if they won’t allow us to show the real us 😂 and telling that our emotions are fake.
I will accept my mistakes if they point out.
Lohohu India @1ml
Yes some people are self centred but what’s important is if they are also the same for you!
Let’s say I am a robber but if I do the robbery for your sake, to keep you happy. At least you shouldn’t see me as a robber!!
While I am morally wrong! I am doing my best for you!
P. S: What’s really important is giving your best and striving to be better!
I totally agree. if we trust someone blindly they will show us why not to trust.
Same like your example if they rob to make us happy atleast we should realise that they did for me. If I devalue them by doing that robbery will the relation work?
Red flags: their behaviour towards treating other people we can identify and if they are close to us we can point out if not we should take a step back. Sorry if I am wrong
Lohohu India @1ml
Let’s take my own example!
I might be bad to some, good for some and great for some!
If u consider my poor treatment of some as a red flag! Then it’s your perspective!
It doesn’t make me a bad person!
Some people lack basic empathy. Even if we hate or like the person we should not abuse them verbally. If they continue to do so then what’s the purpose of being good? Sorry if my words seems harsh.
Lohohu India @1ml
Yes some people do! But then they might born like that! That doesn’t mean they don’t deserve love!
You might not but someone will n it’s ok!
I loved a person who was born like that and still i love him whenever I take a decision of leaving him my only thought is what if he needs me. Even at first I saw those red flags I continued to accept for who he is. He says I am toxic and still talks to me. yeah I continued to take his abuse now I lost myself . I lost faith in love too💔
Lohohu India @1ml
I think i missed a small point!
One’s not supposed to give-in to how they are born but try to improve themselves n be their best for their partners!
P.S: Taking abuse is totally wrong! You did great by moving out
