Does work makes my boyfriend to  not talk to me for 15long days? 

He did when I started complaining. he said he needs time to get into work better. 

Tbh mine works for 9 to 7, and sometimes till 11 for meetings etc, also he had to go to other city on one weekend, but he still managed to talk to me even little. But still. I can't imagine not talking to him for 15 days. 

15 days is way too much. No one is that much busy ever. 

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Can’t able to get over one person

Relationships

Couldnt clear my government job exam and love of my life calls me selfish , as I discuss alot about career with him?Talking abt my career and sucees make  me selfish?

Boyfriend

Hi y’all, I broke up with my boyfriend and we were in a 5year old relationship. Its really hard breaking up and i feel hella guilty but i wanted to work on myself and my mental health. I wanted time and space as i was falling apart from within. I wanted to fix me and pull myself together. I don’t know if I made the correct Decision but he will hate me for the rest of his life. I had no choice but to let him go for his own good. I feel so selfish but i want him to be happy forever. Im just a mess and want to fix myself. Did I do anything wrong? 

Love

I went through a breakup 2 months ago. It had become quite toxic. But i kept going. My boyfriend was very insecure and jealous. I tried my best to calm his insecurities and kept giving him assurance that I won’t leave. It only kept piling up. He would never accept his mistakes and would play the victim card. He asked me to cut off some of my friends. He used to keep checking my phone. We were together for a year but he had no trust. There came a point when I got tired. I said no to him for once and he broke up. He played the victim card again. Instead of apologizing, he blamed me for cheating on him. He never made an effort to mend it or come back. He posted shit about me on social media as well. It’s been 2 months since all this happened but I’m not able to get over it. I tried everything but i wake up with anxiety and fear. 

Anxiety

My bf is in a different country and we have very extreme time zones ..we barely communicate and we fight most of time and thr reason for it being the same..
And he doesn't make effort to talk w me because he is always busy..when I ask he calls it settling down..and that he is taking time to adapt and that is why he ain't able to talk w me..
I feel so lonely and I really don't know what to do..to continue w the relationship or to move on with life..what shud I do???

I'm feeling very guilty and really really weirdly anxious at this point of my life. I met this guy at my university a year back, he was into me from the very first day. I was lonely and needed friends, I tried to make girls as my friends but nobody seemed to match my vibe so the first close friend I had was him ( since I was unware of his intentions) and after becoming good friends he confessed his feelings and I being honest said that I was quite unsure about mine. We were friends only but his feelings always started coming in between, also he cared so much, understood me and took care of every little thing so I started liking him a little but he got so much excited maybe by seeing my little interest towards him that he kissed on my cheeks and that day told my friend (who also secretly liked me) that we were dating and just had a kiss at the library. I was upset for a long time but things sorted out. After that we started dating, I was still unsure and still not sure about my feelings but it's just like he's caring ,understanding everything almost like a total green flag but I seem to be losing interest day by day. It feels like it's just my responsibility to love someone who loves me rather than feeling things naturally, I never feel comfortable in any kind of physical intimacy with him including hugs or even holding hands sometimes. Am I just thinking too much, or should I tell him? I have actually told but he wanna stick to me no matter wht , it sometimes feels like I'm distancing myself from everything else apart from him , he says he never asks me to hangout with anyone but he's even bothered about me spending a couple of hours with another girl too. What should I do??? Should the problms between us be solved or separation is better

I am getting married in a few months and in our culture, the groom has to buy the wedding clothes of the married so when I was in our engagement period I have told my husband to get the wedding clothes but he always ignored me now when it’s the time everybody he says that “ I don’t have the money, I am not going to buy no matter what, no no no no so expensive” even though he has the money but he doesn’t want to spend his money on his wife he got all of his family and relatives new clothes but he does want to buy me the dress he’s giving me a-lot of stress my hairs are turning gray and I am so exhausted he always argue because of money he has money for everyone but not for me. Marriages happen only once in a lifetime but he do this to me I am afraid that if I can get a small portion of food at his house or no I am so confused he is so miser and greedy when I ask him why he says I am doing this for our future and our kids the kids that we don’t have and the future that we are not aware of. Besides he says after marriage you have to work and pay for your own things as well as your salary will go to my account and such this.

Six months ago I and my boyfriend had a breakup and he left me without a reason and when i asked for the reason he said that he dont deserve me. But now he came back and asked that can we be friends but I really dont want to be his friend because I cant hide my feelings for him. But my question is why should he come back, he left me because he dont want me right? Then why did he came back and he also know that I still love him...😔

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