does pretending to move on and living make your ex want to get you or something like that?

I'm a girl...so, i heard boys want to get back with their exes when they think the girl have moved or something like that....so is it true?

Don't manipulate
If you want him 
Said him simple
This type of illusion will make thinks worse
I think

3am Thoughts

Can't figure out how to reduce the communication gap within the family which is increasing day by day. Parents are getting old, growing distant as we grow up and I want to change that and I make conscious efforts and no one realises what's going on.
Feels like career and my overall confidence is also taking a hit  because of this and I feel like I don't have anyone I could just be completely myself with.

Career

@sris what's wrong 😕 

Hey Shru✨
If you’re out there and you are seeing this today was the moment where i needed you… the most..
Wish you were here to hear me.

I can’t feel anything anymore 

Boyfriend

Do you guys stay up this time?

Anyone online? 
You can share your feelings with me
You may heal

Insecurity

Guy’s perspective about their bodies:

I’ll never be good enough will I? Looking at myself and then looking at other guys, I can tell the difference. 

I look down to my stomach, but I don’t see any abs. I know a lot of girls like that and when I look at myself I just know nobody will ever want me. I’d like to feel accepted by my friends too.. 

And my face.. no trace of a jawline? How could I let that happen? 

I get shamed by people, judged by girls just because one guy catcalled a girl years ago? Or months? I get it, it’s a very serious matter and I support it. But judging me? For something that someone else from my gender did? 

I also get sexualised, I also get r@ped and I also have feelings!! Maybe I don’t show them, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have any! I was born and raised like that! And when I try to talk about one of my worst memories, getting r@ped and sexualised, nobody listens to me? 
I also need someone to open up to and talk. 

How do guys get sexualised you think? Well first, my hands. ONLY MY HANDS! 

« Oh look at how big his fingers are, look at his veins, I wonder what it would feel like » 

Then my legs and arms too!

« Look at his thighs, I wish I could r!de them. Look at his arms, he’s so strong! I bet he’s able to pick me up during s€x »

And worst part, my voice also gets sexualised. 

« His voice is so deep, I wonder how he sound when he mo@ns »

I just don’t get it. Why ignore me when I call for help? Or judge me for something another guy ddI? Why call every guy the ‘same’ because one broke your heart?


⚠︎︎Stop judging people. Stop judging every gender. Stop having gender wars when it’ll get you nowhere. This is wrong, this is something people have to understand⚠︎︎

(This was written by a girl, so if I got it wrong, please tell me. I have no idea if everything I said is true, but with what I have seen and what I have heard I guess this is what most guys feel like) 

Uk it's hard to let go of ppl with whom u had a strong bond once cause u feel if they are gone then u wouldn't have anyone and  i'm holding on to someone who is toxic to me. Even tho ik i should end it but there's this voice inside me telling me not to do that cause that's the only person in my life rn. And i'm sure i'll meet a lot of ppl in future or once i'm in college but rn i can't do smth that is right for me. And i decide to hold on to someone who hurts me everyday, doesn't give a fuck about me and doesn't even care if i'm mad. Cause they know what they are to me and i'll never let them go. That's how fucked up life is. And like i fucking know what's right for me but still i can't do it for unknown reason.

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