Does jealousy really exist in a friend group when everyone is straight and of the same gender? Like where you feel weird betrayal or you feel you are left out???


Friends

I was not the jealous type but after few months I tend to get a little jealous about other girls he talks too. I don't want to, because it sucks. 

Just give me some tip to avoid this!! Pleaseeee

Relationships

How to get over ENVY?

3am Thoughts

I don't why always bad things happening with me.. having no hobbies.... having no friends.. living life alone.... sometimes I feel jealous of others who go out for tour  with their friends but I can't coz of no friends...my routine is just mobile and college and then home and same repeated🙃...!!!! 

Dreams

It's not easy leaving this feeling. It's the most destructive feeling ever. But even after knowing that I feel like I am a very jealous person, and I want to see myself at the helm of things because I've always somehow been at a major power position. I don't know how to shove this feeling away..

Other

Today I am feeling very badd 
I want to say that in this world 🌍 most of the people feel jealous from others success and others relationship.
All want to interfere in others personal life why I don't know ?

Anger Issues

I am jealous of that person who has it all. Good friends to turn to. Who have ur back. Good grades. Caring, loving and protective boyfriend. Doing extra courses. And are just happy. Why can't I have a life like them? I don't even have a thing they have. Why Is life so unfair to me?

Boyfriend

I am so jealous. I wish I could find real and True love. 

It seems all or most emotions have their usefulness. From the positive like happiness and joy even to the negative like sadness and anger. But there's one that doesn't seem to serve any purpose whatsoever....yet grips at my very existence. Jealousy is often alluded to as a very sour state ..with the sufferer often  touted and looked down upon..merely as a sad, miserable person who is just that way... But I feel this is not the case..it stems from something....maybe unrealised dreams or something the person feels they lack or should have, but was lost due to the actions and words of another, or merely life itself. Why is jealousy not treated as an emotional state...and rather as a trait which cannot be undone and one must simply suffer...and be secluded away from the rest of society...even though we all feel it sometimes.. 

Why does the mentor, who has such high hopes for themself and their young trainee turn sour and angry at their own failings and the success of the one they had such high hopes for....this is I and I'm not happy for it and turn myself away from society to deal with my own shortcomings but realise the more I am shunned away...the angrier I become...which may just be sadness and despair in disguise....

I just choose to share this rather than write in my journal as I normally would just for some sort of peace and perhaps perspective... if you've read this far ...and I appreciate your attentiveness if so...what do you think about jealousy ...and whatever value it has.. If any...as an emotion? 

Thanks 

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