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Anonymous

Does it mean I’m a narcissist if I wanted to stay friends with my ex post breakup?

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Anonymous

who initiated the break up

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Anonymous

Ex did

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Anonymous

then it’s upto you but dont do it if it hurts you or if you hope ki sab pehle jaisa ho jaye
it’s better to let him go then

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Anonymous

I let them go couple days after they did it, and tbh I’ve been happier after that…

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Anonymous

happy for you

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Anonymous

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See if the break up was mutual then the idea of being friends has to be mutual aswell.

Deepti G. @deepti_garg

It’s better for both to move on. Maybe something incredible is waiting for you. As you let go

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Anonymous

That’s so true, now that I look back, I wanted him to stay and was attached alot. It’s better he didn’t stay, I could move on easily

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Anonymous

I’m curious if solely wanting to stay as friends was my anxious attachment style or narcissistic trait, so I could work on myself

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Anonymous

Nah man its not narcissistic. People these days use this word so easily without knowing what narcissistic people actually are like. I know it’s really hard to let someone go. It’s okay to stay friends if you and your ex are comfortable with it, but I hope you focus on yourself too and find ways to heal <3

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Anonymous

Thanks man!! Yeah I communicated with them post breakup and I move on, chosing myself over someone who isn’t serious about me would have made me dwell over misery. I believe I’m at a much better place rn, thnx tho<33

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Anonymous

Great, I am happy for you then <3

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Anonymous

Thankyou! Wishing you good luck<33

Anonymous

Last time I checked that wasn’t the definition of narcissist

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Anonymous

Ikr. It doesn’t take much time to label people😂

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