Does it mean Iām a narcissist if I wanted to stay friends with my ex post breakup?
who initiated the break up
Ex did
then itās upto you but dont do it if it hurts you or if you hope ki sab pehle jaisa ho jaye
itās better to let him go then
I let them go couple days after they did it, and tbh Iāve been happier after thatā¦
happy for you
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See if the break up was mutual then the idea of being friends has to be mutual aswell.
Deepti G. @deepti_garg
Itās better for both to move on. Maybe something incredible is waiting for you. As you let go
Thatās so true, now that I look back, I wanted him to stay and was attached alot. Itās better he didnāt stay, I could move on easily
Iām curious if solely wanting to stay as friends was my anxious attachment style or narcissistic trait, so I could work on myself
Nah man its not narcissistic. People these days use this word so easily without knowing what narcissistic people actually are like. I know itās really hard to let someone go. Itās okay to stay friends if you and your ex are comfortable with it, but I hope you focus on yourself too and find ways to heal <3
Thanks man!! Yeah I communicated with them post breakup and I move on, chosing myself over someone who isnāt serious about me would have made me dwell over misery. I believe Iām at a much better place rn, thnx tho<33
Great, I am happy for you then <3
Thankyou! Wishing you good luck<33
Last time I checked that wasnāt the definition of narcissist
Ikr. It doesnāt take much time to label peopleš
