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shithappens
@shithappens

Does age matter in love?

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Anonymous

i really dont think so, whats important is that you love the person

pawanism
@pawanism

Love
Love is not a power, an addiction, but there is definitely addiction and further we know that once someone gets addicted then it becomes a problem to get intoxicated or to leave a human being
Frankly love is impossible to define
I know it is impossible to believe this thing, an example is for him
We think Google has the answer to every question
Write any word you can define in a minute, but it is not so, if you search on Google by writing love, then you will get only TV serials and web series, if not sure then try it.
“Have a good life”
And one more thing understandings between both are necessary to love.

indu
@indu

Wow…👏👏 I guess you’ve been in love before… Am I right??😄

pawanism
@pawanism

Ryt.

Anonymous

you can love anyone of any age but if that love drives sexual desires i think age really matters because taking benefits of one’s ignorance is not love.

pawanism
@pawanism

listen
I appreciate what you have written
But in some ways I consider my father the greatest inspiration of my life
They always used to say that the age of girl should be more among the couples or say engadged people and I agree with that because that relationship is also called sex based relationship.
In the end, I can only say that the age is different in that sense, only then the government implements age-based provisions for marriage.
But if the power to understand each other between two people is perfect, then that relationship has no matters age .
“Have a good life.”

Anonymous

😄
you consider your father a great inspiration right but why!!! because you are ignorant while your father knows lots of things(not because of your father’s hard work but mostly because of his experiences that age has provided him) you love him right and maybe he also loves you,what if he starts taking benefits out of your love for example he starts claiming some sort of pain just to take the labour out of you.taking benefits of others out of their ignorance is not love,it never can be.and again as i said you are ignorant to judge and always will be(in matters of age).
one merchant sold me a useless memory card for five hundred,and i know very well economics trust me but i was fooled by his age(experience),while on other hand i dont even know much about love so it is even more dangerous to deal with an olderly one in such matters and with falling for one younger i really dont want to be a adventurer(if not a child abuser).
but yes,i think if one doesnt value his/her sexuality as a private matter,there is no point of taking benefits(in using a public property) and in that case age doent matter.

pawanism
@pawanism

😊😊

snktmore
@snktmore

No, as long as there is no lust/physical intimacy involved. What matters most is innocence, unconditional acceptance of a person you are in with love.

shithappens
@shithappens

No physical intimacy involved. Not ever. Mostly friendship and emotional support for each other. I just wonder why his happiness became too important for me that I did everything just to make him happy. And I was so depressed back then when he became heartbroken because he got rejected by someone he likes. I should’ve been happy he got rejected right? But why am I depressed instead? I just wanted him to be happy and I usually gave him something to be happy without expecting something in return. Why am I became so obsessed with his happiness to the point of hurting myself?

snktmore
@snktmore

It happens when you get too attached/involved in a person. What you are referring as love is “attachment” most of the time. Love is generalized in everyone’s capacity. Its like what you consider as love might be fondness for other. Which can happen between two friends too. It’s applicable for same gender friendships too (not referring to LGBT).

The instance you have shared is genuine love feeling. Unfortunately, it wasn’t same for him. But you can’t keep labelling each emotional attachment as love. Once you learn to differentiate, you’ll less likely hurt your feelings.

shithappens
@shithappens

Thank you. Your words enlighten me a lot. Maybe what I’m feeling is not romantic love. I was naive because I haven’t had any romantic relationship before. God bless you sir

snktmore
@snktmore

Exactly! I’m so happy I could help you understand it. Have a great day and life ahead!

n
@nirojop

Hey friend,
I find actually age matters because age may hamper your interests and personal likings due to generation gap. This things do matter in long run and can be simply sought by creating boundaries and principals from the first day of relationship. This way, age won’t hamper love between two people.