do you want him to stay
but only to take you for granted

or just allow him to walk away
because he doesn't see your worth

both are painful
but the latter part is pain of healing
i hope you chose that one.☺️

It's hurting and painful to let him go but it's necessary...
Just love yourself , be yourself and enjoy your own time with you 

Happy

Just tell me being too kind ,sweet and vulnerable to people means being a fool? Because i feel like that only. I behave like this with people but they don't return the same. What do y'all think? Like if they are not good for me or they are not really that vulnerable 

3am Thoughts

Private job or govt job ? Vote please ! 

Career

Am i the only one feeling this way that i dont have plans in the future and its just that everyday is so tiring because its always repeated i keep on questioning myself about my purpose in life

So im a boy friends with both girls and boys. One time two girls in the group got into a big arguement and stuff. Im going to talk about what happened.

So one girl felt left out because she felt nobody was talking or joking with her as much on the group chat (lets call her A, and other girl B). Branched into a whole ass arguement that I had to solve.

So anyways, the whole thing starts when im not on my phone. When I come back to check it, i see messages everywhere. I check the chat and figure out whats going on. So obviously A is the only one that feels left out is the only one with the opinion tht she was left out. Everyone else was on the B's side. It was really an arguement between them two, and they were best friends. So I text A asking her what happened after talking to B. I know the whole story from the perspective of B, so now im asking A. Probably the easiest way to solve an argument.

So i ask her what happened, she gives me her side of the story. Shes saying nobody understands her, blah blah blah. So. as the logical being I consider myself to be, I ask what do people not understand about this. She tightens up, telling me to leave her alone and stuff. Saying "Stop asking me, seriously" and everything like that, I pester her for like 5 mins trying to get an answer, and then i snap. I say something along the lines of "Listen, shit isnt gonna get better between you and B unless we solve this so tell me what we dont understand and this can be over. im so close to leaving you with this crap right now." Then she writes this whole paragraph, saying she thought I would be the one sticking with her to the end and she thought i was a real friend, bullshit like that. THEN SHE SAYS "I WAS GONNA TELL YOU AND IF YOU WERE A REAL FRIEND YOU WOULD STAY" By this point, im so done with her shit.

I respond with "well if you were a real friend you would have answered my question the first time I asked. So bye"

That got to her. All is silent for a couple minutes, then BOOM. Shes texting me paragraphs of apologies, pictures of her crying, like holy fuck. One of the pictures was a snap to one of her other friends, saying she shut me out because I was a boy and I wouldnt understand things like this-which by the way I was the most understanding person in that situation. also just insulting to assume something like that.

But after everyone was sunshine and rainbows, nobody said shit to me. I didnt get any credit for salvaging a strong friendship and breaking up an arguement. Nobody got credit and it pissed me off.

Misunderstanding

I'm here to find new friends 

Adulting

I met this guy through dating app and we went on a date everything went well he ghosted me for 2-3 days then start texting me back and tonight he went on a out with 2 girls idk who I believe one is her sister and don't know about the other one. When i asked him 'what are you doing' he had the audacity to tell me ' I'm on a date you tell' 
And he took those two girls where we had our first date. 
It was a slap on my face idk why i felt so humiliated by that

Want to talk with me??? 

It has been my 1st day without alcohol, I have been drinking since 10years, every evening till I would get sloshed. I want to be sober again, I had cravings today but less, I just want to get thru the coming days and make this change in my self. Anyone been through same please advise , how to manage anxiety attacks and alcohol withdrawal symptoms.

Thanks in advance 

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