Do you think loving someone and loving the way they love you are two same thing?
Sometimes I think why I loved him. If I actually loved him or was it just the love care and affection he showed me. If it’s the lonliness and how he never let me alone to feel it. Or if it’s the way he hold me when I was falling. Or it was just love, loving him for him.
I think and overthink and even after years I am just so scared to let someone love me. What if I never love them. What if I just like the way they care. And not liking them for them.
Doupu think it’s okay?
Not every five fingers are same. Yeah sometimes people are bad but coz of them uh can’t stop loving
No I am not saying everyone is bad. Even my ex wasn’t bad. It’s about me. I am just confused. What if I just like the way they love me and consider that as love. It won’t be fair to them no?
How do I know the difference.
Oh confused ho ??
Bahut
Meko yeh btao Hindi m k dikkat kha aa rhi hai mtlb jb kisi se pyar to to ap pkke sure hone chahiye?
Kabhi kabhi hum bas un k behavioir se pyar karte h. Wo kaise humara khayal rakh rahe, kaise humara har bat ka dhyan rakhte h. we just like that. Na ki us insan se. It’s like tum unse tab tak pyar karte rahoge jab tak wo Sare chije kare but once they stop u won’t like it.
Idk how to explain
Acha to madam ye pyar nhi addiction n attraction hoti hai naa k pyaar m bhi kai DFA is situation m aaea hu n i know k kaisa feel hota hai again it’s not love
That’s what I am saying. When u r in that situation u dont realise that. I just want to be sure ki haan ye attraction nahi pyar h.
Agr to dekho situation same hai to attraction hai n ik bat btau is attraction ko khtm krlo wrna mushkil hogi
You can’t say all fruits in the basket are sweets… Some might be sour and some might be tart… So you have to taste it… Before considering everyone is same… So just give a try… Life is all about tomorrow’s mysterious things…! And today’s initiative
I am not considering everyone same. I just want to know if I ever fall in love I want to be sure that yes I love them for them and not just the way they love me.
I want to know how to differentiate or if that okay.
There is word called infatuation. It is more than attraction and less than love. You are infatuated to someone. And you that that’s love. And if you suppose it’s love. Then you start dreaming about it. About his affection, care.
And for “love” You have already made a standard.
That when I will be in love… Then this will happen. I will this, that.
But that’s doesn’t happen.
In the real love person wants that there should will be two bodies but one soul. Whatever I will think the next person will also think same. And it’s practically impossible.
When you will get in, in someone else space. Then after some time you will realise it’s not happening in same way. And it’s reality too. If both person are giving their 100% then also… Both will not be complete in love. Love can never be ideal nor u.
So accept it as it is.
You can do one thing… That both must have better understanding.
U r right. … Maybe that’s what it is .
Then… What’s the problem.
Carry-on your relationship.
Girl, same here… I really doubt myself if I will ever fall for anyone at all… It’s kind of sad to think but I have just accepted it just the way I’m
More power to us 🤝
Yeah✨
