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Isha @issa

Do you think it’s okay for parents to go through your texts? Isn’t it privacy invasion…
How can I make them understand to not go through my chats?

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nitish @vladdracula

tell them directly this thing makes you uncomfortable

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Isha @issa

Well I did tell them but they just said that it’s for your own good🤷‍♀️… I mean this plan backfired on me cuz supposedly I texted cuss words and uk brown parents mentality🤌🏼

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nitish @vladdracula

observe their reaction

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Anonymous

Here’s a thing you just can’t make them understand these things, like if they are cool with it from the start and if something happened and they want to check it I can understand, but if they are like this from starting you just can’t make them understand that It’s invasion of privacy. I think they just let go of these things as we grow up.

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Isha @issa

I dunno they were pretty cool about it back then …

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Anonymous

Well did something happen in between, like did they start doing this out of nowhere.

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Isha @issa

Lmao, the same old myth (me seeing someone) fyi I was not… I was just being open to them

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Anonymous

There you have it 🥲
The consequences of being open. Make them understand that you being open to them is the first thing that you’re doing to let them know about your personal life, so they don’t have to worry about what will you get into, without them having any idea, I know making them understand this isn’t going to be easy but I’m sure you’ll find some way to do it, and they’ll understand too.

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Anonymous

How can I even make them understand it was casual flirting😭😭

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Anonymous

Ohh if it’s flirting, I’m sure they’ll not even try to understand 🥲🥲

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Isha @issa

Frfr😭

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Anonymous

Thats family bonding, I guess, you can go through their bank Account, debit some money

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Isha @issa

Um yeah I can 😭 but still going through my texts is…😭😭

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Anonymous

Probably it must be because you’re very young.
And they’re protecting you/trying to watch out for you.

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Isha @issa

I do agree with you but you can just actually tell me to keep a distance from such stuff rather than constantly going through my texts

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Anonymous

I should not be suggesting this.
But get a new phone which they’re not aware of.
Problem solved.

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Isha @issa

If only it was that easy…😂

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Anonymous

Just make them trust u ✊ share every little things to your parents , when I got my phone for first time my mum always like checking my phone and spying on me but then I just started to share everything with her openly and now she never ever checks my phone for real

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Isha @issa

Well there are some inside convos with ur bestie which is just so inapt to share… just bc they won’t understand your pov

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Anonymous

Umm you know tbh I never trust these online chatting platforms bcoz your conversation is not safe here so . when I want to share some inside convos i just prefer verbal communication instead chatting its just my pov🤧

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Anonymous

Let them chk it … Let make your side clear…gain their trust…n then u have your privacy…

Anonymous

No. You can secure your apps which you use for chatting and apply a different passcode and hide it from your screen view.

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Anonymous

What did you do

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