Isha @issa
Do you think itβs okay for parents to go through your texts? Isnβt it privacy invasionβ¦
How can I make them understand to not go through my chats?
nitish @vladdracula
tell them directly this thing makes you uncomfortable
Isha @issa
Well I did tell them but they just said that itβs for your own goodπ€·ββοΈβ¦ I mean this plan backfired on me cuz supposedly I texted cuss words and uk brown parents mentalityπ€πΌ
nitish @vladdracula
observe their reaction
Hereβs a thing you just canβt make them understand these things, like if they are cool with it from the start and if something happened and they want to check it I can understand, but if they are like this from starting you just canβt make them understand that Itβs invasion of privacy. I think they just let go of these things as we grow up.
Isha @issa
I dunno they were pretty cool about it back then β¦
Well did something happen in between, like did they start doing this out of nowhere.
Isha @issa
Lmao, the same old myth (me seeing someone) fyi I was not⦠I was just being open to them
There you have it π₯²
The consequences of being open. Make them understand that you being open to them is the first thing that youβre doing to let them know about your personal life, so they donβt have to worry about what will you get into, without them having any idea, I know making them understand this isnβt going to be easy but Iβm sure youβll find some way to do it, and theyβll understand too.
How can I even make them understand it was casual flirtingππ
Ohh if itβs flirting, Iβm sure theyβll not even try to understand π₯²π₯²
Isha @issa
Frfrπ
Thats family bonding, I guess, you can go through their bank Account, debit some money
Isha @issa
Um yeah I can π but still going through my texts isβ¦ππ
Probably it must be because youβre very young.
And theyβre protecting you/trying to watch out for you.
Isha @issa
I do agree with you but you can just actually tell me to keep a distance from such stuff rather than constantly going through my texts
I should not be suggesting this.
But get a new phone which theyβre not aware of.
Problem solved.
Isha @issa
If only it was that easyβ¦π
Just make them trust u β share every little things to your parents , when I got my phone for first time my mum always like checking my phone and spying on me but then I just started to share everything with her openly and now she never ever checks my phone for real
Isha @issa
Well there are some inside convos with ur bestie which is just so inapt to shareβ¦ just bc they wonβt understand your pov
Umm you know tbh I never trust these online chatting platforms bcoz your conversation is not safe here so . when I want to share some inside convos i just prefer verbal communication instead chatting its just my povπ€§
Let them chk it β¦ Let make your side clearβ¦gain their trustβ¦n then u have your privacyβ¦
No. You can secure your apps which you use for chatting and apply a different passcode and hide it from your screen view.
What did you do