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Nyx @lost_not_found

Do you really want someone to love you unconditionally or just someone whom you can do anything around freely and not be judged about it?

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Good answer…i like it

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Nyx @lost_not_found

But which one?

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leo @farhanshaikh

First one would everyone want !

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Yeah but its almost impossible

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Yes but milta qismat sae hae

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Nyx @lost_not_found

100%

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If you love someone unconditionally, you’re already in a position where you don’t judge them for the things they do. At least until the honeymoon period of the relationship is over 😂

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Nyx @lost_not_found

😂😂😂 but one can be non judgemental without being in love…isnt it?

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Yes, your psychiatrist and even your psychologist are trained not to judge people.

In fact that is in most cases the first thing people are trained to do when dealing with mental health but our society teaches the opposite.

No matter what a person does, society will judge him. It doesn’t matter if the person is doing the right thing or the wrong thing, society like to form it’s own opinion about people and convince others and justify itself as to why it sees others the way it sees.

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Very true. Thats why my question was is is just love that people want or reassurances because world is no more a better place to live in

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For some people falling in love is the assurance that they are looking for.

And for some, they fall in love with people who get the reassurance from the significant other.

There is no right answer to this question. Different people have different experiences a d different thought processes. And that’s why I say when you are in love and you love the other person unconditionally, everything else doesn’t matter. Until it becomes a problem or a threat to the relationship or to the other person.

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Noted

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I hope you were able to see from my point of view. If not we can always have a healthy argument about it. After all, if we can’t tell our significant other what we want, how can we expect them to read our mind and tell us what we need😅

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Nyx @lost_not_found

I absolutely agree. I just didnt have anything to add

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voidnothing @voidnothing

YES
Everyone wants it but no one does it.

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Expectations do hurt…dont they?

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voidnothing @voidnothing

expectation feels like telling a lie
you refuse to see the reality and you wanna believe something impossible that is not obviously true.
so yeah expectations hurt, that’s why we should be all realistic & balanced…

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Everybody craves for love and I dont think anybody would like to see judgement in their own partner’s eyes.
At the end of the day, you want to be in their arms filled with love, not judgements.
What are you looking for though?

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Nyx @lost_not_found

I have stopped looking now. So nvm :)

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I hope the other person hasn’t stopped looking for you ;)

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Also, when you have reasons to love them, you will have reasons to leave them as well… Got ya

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Nyx @lost_not_found

To observe yes…to experience? Idk…never been there

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Nyx @lost_not_found

I mean it’s more like…never felt it for me

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Yeah, I am the classic abandoned one hahaha …can’t blame anyone though

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Aaaaaaahhhhh I wish… I suck at it…do you¿

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Nyx @lost_not_found

The last time I wrote was for the article that got published…so nothing creative either. But yeah I really wish I was good at writing

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Nyx @lost_not_found

How many hours of sleep do you get ¿

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Good boy 🙃

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Absolutely you do but look at you…wasting valuable sleep time here lol

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Nyx @lost_not_found

I get around 6 hrs of sleep if I am lucky or it’s less…today I am running on 4.5 hrs of sleep 😌

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Very hard…my brain and body work separately

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Easier said than done

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Nyx @lost_not_found

I am nottt doing so wellllll…hehee get a hint

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Nyx @lost_not_found

That was me in 2016 but apparently that was also a trauma response…….😂😂😂😂

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Nyx @lost_not_found

😂😂😂😂 have you ever had a wonderful but incomplete dream which you wanted to continue by trying to sleep again ¿ I have been that fool lol

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Nyx @lost_not_found

No…I am hyper aware when I sleep but I don’t get lucid dreams

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Nyx @lost_not_found

I am happy for you 🙂🙃

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Haha whattt I m not that bad of a person…maybe just a little bit hehe

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Writers’ block 😅

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Nyx @lost_not_found

It just means unable to move ahead for no apparent reason.

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Absolutely… I love threes—- …well that sounds wrong

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Nyx @lost_not_found

The ugly ones are the funny ones

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Oh I feared so….whenever I make someone laugh it just proves that theory

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Nyx @lost_not_found

I am sure that dialogue was made to console the ugly 😂

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Nyx @lost_not_found

Ya allah, relax. 😅

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Nyx @lost_not_found

You weren’t there when it originally was said so shhhh

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