Nyx @lost_not_found
Do you really want someone to love you unconditionally or just someone whom you can do anything around freely and not be judged about it?
Nyx @lost_not_found
Good answer…i like it
Nyx @lost_not_found
But which one?
farhan shaikh @farhanshaik...
First one would everyone want !
Nyx @lost_not_found
Yeah but its almost impossible
Yes but milta qismat sae hae
Nyx @lost_not_found
100%
If you love someone unconditionally, you’re already in a position where you don’t judge them for the things they do. At least until the honeymoon period of the relationship is over 😂
Nyx @lost_not_found
😂😂😂 but one can be non judgemental without being in love…isnt it?
Yes, your psychiatrist and even your psychologist are trained not to judge people.
In fact that is in most cases the first thing people are trained to do when dealing with mental health but our society teaches the opposite.
No matter what a person does, society will judge him. It doesn’t matter if the person is doing the right thing or the wrong thing, society like to form it’s own opinion about people and convince others and justify itself as to why it sees others the way it sees.
Nyx @lost_not_found
Very true. Thats why my question was is is just love that people want or reassurances because world is no more a better place to live in
For some people falling in love is the assurance that they are looking for.
And for some, they fall in love with people who get the reassurance from the significant other.
There is no right answer to this question. Different people have different experiences a d different thought processes. And that’s why I say when you are in love and you love the other person unconditionally, everything else doesn’t matter. Until it becomes a problem or a threat to the relationship or to the other person.
Nyx @lost_not_found
Noted
I hope you were able to see from my point of view. If not we can always have a healthy argument about it. After all, if we can’t tell our significant other what we want, how can we expect them to read our mind and tell us what we need😅
Nyx @lost_not_found
I absolutely agree. I just didnt have anything to add
voidnothing @voidnothing
YES
Everyone wants it but no one does it.
Nyx @lost_not_found
Expectations do hurt…dont they?
voidnothing @voidnothing
expectation feels like telling a lie
you refuse to see the reality and you wanna believe something impossible that is not obviously true.
so yeah expectations hurt, that’s why we should be all realistic & balanced…
Everybody craves for love and I dont think anybody would like to see judgement in their own partner’s eyes.
At the end of the day, you want to be in their arms filled with love, not judgements.
What are you looking for though?
Nyx @lost_not_found
I have stopped looking now. So nvm :)
I hope the other person hasn’t stopped looking for you ;)
Nyx @lost_not_found
Also, when you have reasons to love them, you will have reasons to leave them as well… Got ya
Nyx @lost_not_found
To observe yes…to experience? Idk…never been there
Nyx @lost_not_found
I mean it’s more like…never felt it for me
Nyx @lost_not_found
Yeah, I am the classic abandoned one hahaha …can’t blame anyone though
Nyx @lost_not_found
Aaaaaaahhhhh I wish… I suck at it…do you¿
Nyx @lost_not_found
The last time I wrote was for the article that got published…so nothing creative either. But yeah I really wish I was good at writing
Nyx @lost_not_found
How many hours of sleep do you get ¿
Nyx @lost_not_found
Good boy 🙃
Nyx @lost_not_found
Absolutely you do but look at you…wasting valuable sleep time here lol
Nyx @lost_not_found
I get around 6 hrs of sleep if I am lucky or it’s less…today I am running on 4.5 hrs of sleep 😌
Nyx @lost_not_found
Very hard…my brain and body work separately
Nyx @lost_not_found
Easier said than done
Nyx @lost_not_found
I am nottt doing so wellllll…hehee get a hint
Nyx @lost_not_found
That was me in 2016 but apparently that was also a trauma response…….😂😂😂😂
Nyx @lost_not_found
😂😂😂😂 have you ever had a wonderful but incomplete dream which you wanted to continue by trying to sleep again ¿ I have been that fool lol
Nyx @lost_not_found
No…I am hyper aware when I sleep but I don’t get lucid dreams
Nyx @lost_not_found
I am happy for you 🙂🙃
Nyx @lost_not_found
Haha whattt I m not that bad of a person…maybe just a little bit hehe
Nyx @lost_not_found
Writers’ block 😅
Nyx @lost_not_found
It just means unable to move ahead for no apparent reason.
Nyx @lost_not_found
Absolutely… I love threes—- …well that sounds wrong
Nyx @lost_not_found
The ugly ones are the funny ones
Nyx @lost_not_found
Oh I feared so….whenever I make someone laugh it just proves that theory
Nyx @lost_not_found
I am sure that dialogue was made to console the ugly 😂
Nyx @lost_not_found
Ya allah, relax. 😅
Nyx @lost_not_found
You weren’t there when it originally was said so shhhh