Do you really forget someone you have loved deeply once or is it just a toughen up act that people pull to hide their vulnerabilities because I’m not able to find any solution and I’m in deep shit. If anyone has any solution it would be a great help.
Sansthita @sansthita
Time heals everything. I won’t say that you forget, but yeah you no longer have the attachment and nor do you miss them and nor do you wish that they were near you. It takes time, but we do heal eventually
How long? It has been 5 years
Sansthita @sansthita
Many take 10. Give yourself some more time. Relocate somewhere, make new friends, form new connects, try to get a closure. You will be fine
My situation is like I went to a new place but now he’s coming there too. I can’t escape any more. And I don’t know how to cope-up with that. Yes it would have been better if I wasn’t around that person, now it’s killing me. I’m not okay mentally and nobody has any idea about what I’m going through.
Sansthita @sansthita
So ignore him. Avoid looking at him. Try to see through him. Make new connections over there and enjoy with your new friends
Will try. Thank you
Sansthita @sansthita
Anytime. I am always there for all of you :)
Once I loved someone very deeply. When they left, it was tough for me to accept. I can’t forget him, I was truly attached to him. Today, we talk, we are good friends but I dont feel the same things that I used to feel.
My heart ached and pain controlled my mind but one thing I knew was, I was honest and did everything that I could. I was hurt while moving on and walking away from him, detaching and not talking to him and the process was difficult but I did for my well being. I don’t regret it a bit because I know my feelings were true, I was true with him and me. I don’t regret any action. I am grateful. ❤
Sansthita @sansthita
Congratulations on moving on!
I hope I get a part of your strength. More power to you🧡
Everything will be alright. Have faith in yourself, know your worth. This is what gave me the strength that you see. Most importantly, love yourself, this is what helped me.
Loving yourself is life long process so dont rush, spread your wings and you’ll glow. 💜
I hope so, but maybe I need some professional’s help. I have trouble sleeping at nights. I have started to hate myself. I have become angrier and mostly I prefer to be alone. I have suicidal thoughts at nights. I’m hating this life and all the things I see around me. How do I start loving myself? I don’t find life worth living anymore.
Yes, that’s what I think. I had similar things going. BTS (Korean boy band) songs helped me to love myself and because of them, I got out of the situation that I was in. To move one completely, I took 1 and half years. If you need a professional, go for it.
I have not been able to forget the person I have loved… But now he is not with me… I take it up as a part of experience of life… People come and people go… And you don’t have to think about them so much… Just put the good times you had and let go… Remember there’s no turning back
