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@dontknowme11

do you guys ever just feel left out in something you created or started if so how do you help yourself

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Simran @st1199

Hi!
It depends on how you perceive things. I have never felt this way and if it crosses my mind I do know how it came and the root cause of it which makes me at a better place. ⭐️

@dontknowme11

omg like fr tho i feel like your such a positive person who ever is your friend or close to you is lucky

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Simran @st1199

Thankyou for such words, I appreciate your honestly. 🎈

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Simran @st1199

@ell and @dontknowme11 , even if we have a group there is always 2-3 people who would be more close to each other than with others. I do have a School group of friends and we are 7 in total. Out of which we are close to 1-2 persons than the whole group. We do share our major life things (happy/sad) but our everyday life is shared with limited people.

You shouldn’t be sad or feel left out, because it does work that way. What matters is you hold a place in their heart and have value as a friend for them. They are happy for you, respect you, care for you and feel happy to have a friend like you. :)

@dontknowme11

ya ik that ofc there are people that can be closer im not against that but the thing is we are a group of 9 and no one is close to me like im just there for hangouts all together and no one shares secrets with me that doesnt really bother me but the think is im not as close as everyone is i hope that made sense im tryna not worry about it too much as i said i want focus on myself right now so i can achieve what i want i already cut out so many toxic people out o my life thankgod

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Simran @st1199

Yeah, I understood your point.
Maybe at the right time you will too get one. And that will be the turning point of your life.

Right now, see where you stand, what all you want to upskill and make yourself a better individual.

@dontknowme11

im working on it

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Simran @st1199

Great!

@ell

Uhm yes? I don’t know if I’m selfish and greedy but yeah.

I started talking to two girls and they became my friends. We were so close, we never had secrets before and then I found this girl she really is sweet and kind so I talk to her and became friends with her.

I introduce her to my two friends and they like her. And then on a sudden both of my friends has their own secrets, I mean it didn’t matter for me at first but whenever I saw them laughing ang asking them what’s up they always change the topic.

And then sometimes they never ask me out. I found out that they are going out together several times because I see their post in social media.

I began distancing myself to them because I feel they don’t want me in their group.

And yeah I became a stranger to them.

Also the guy I like who I TAUGHT LIKED ME TOO 💔 he likes her and never said that he was falling for her?. I mean we really are close. I don’t care if he likes her but I just hope he said it to me so I wouldn’t be so clueless. I was hurt.

😅 I think I’m boring ang worthless.

@ell

I accepted it and I actually moved on and just live my life. I began trying new things and exploring what I love.

I go with the flow.

@dontknowme11

first im glad youre feeling better and get rid of those toxic friends ive also been through the same thing like my friends have thee own groups together that i know about and they know that i know about them infront of them i would just pretend like idc because it really doesnt bother me but sometimes when im alone and start thinking i get bothred like if they dont like me why cant you just tell me to go find new friends but then when we all hang out its so fun and we love eachother you know wat i mnea we make the best memories but then in texting theyre really different an theyre harsh soemtmes and they say its a joke were bestfriens but i know they dont count me as their bestfriend damn im ina lesson right now i i typed alot ahha i think thats enough but i really go somethihg of my chest

@dontknowme11

but now they left the country well two of them but its still the same with the other girls but now im just tryna focus on myself and do whats best for me

@ell

Sometimes one of the toxic traits of having close friends is they are jokingly saying harsh things about you and they think it is OK but NO it is NOT OKAY! Even you guys are close lets not be insensitive, I did do that kind of jokes but when they said that it isn’t funny I’ll never said that again, just to not hurt them but yeah they still leave me. I’m also happy for you because those toxic friends of yours are insensitive bitches they’ll never understand because they only care about theirselves!

Hoping you really are doing fine! Stay Safe and Soon we’ll be happy.

@theunacknowledged

yes. that was one major event in my life that practically led my life on a another path. I introduced two of my closest friends to each other, one from my colony and the other from my school. They ended up being so close that they eventually left me out from EVERYTHING. theyd hang out n front of me and litterally would say to my face “we’re so glad we met each other”. you met each other? i got you to meet each other. see now i know our situations may be completely different, but instead of thinking “why me?” try stressing more on the fact that “what is this trying to teach me” its after all how we cope up with these tough times that really define who we are…
Hope this helps… Stay safe:)

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