do you ever truly get over someone? I feel like I'm over him, but at the same time, it's like I want to find him in everyone else that comes my way. his personality, her character his ways everything and if they don't it's like I don't even show interest because it's like nobody can ever be in his level or at least make me feel like how he did. so how is it that I feel as if I'm over him but I'm still looking for him in either guys??? 



No 

You never

No one can ever

Because every moment you spent with him was like stream of river that you can never revisit

Though the flow of river is continue but you can never have the same water

This applies on your life as well

We never get over people

We only learn to live without them

But that's the beauty of it 

This opens opportunity of being with so many different people and enriching experience of our life



Confusion

Hi. Hope all of you are doing amazing. Need some advice.
1. Is it okay for my boyfriend to go out without telling me where/with whom/ when? I always knew where he was, what he was doing, but now I do not know most of the times.
2. Communication is very less, despite me telling repeatedly how I feel, there is no improvement
3. I am getting affected a lot since a month now and I am unable to do any chores or eat anything. But the fact that I know he loves me, cares for me is stopping me from making an extreme decision.
I do need a lot of advices. Pl pl pl pl pl help me with this
Thank you in advance

Long Distance Relationship

I tell you what..

I dated a guy and he cheated on me. But I am not sad of leaving him because it’s a lesson for me also I don’t want to get stuck with some guy who is not worthy of me.

Next year after my breakup, I met a guy. Just I was about to confess my feelings things got ugly and he decided not to talk to me. And he ended our friendship. I think probably it was a attraction.

After two years, I met this guy who was my classmate in my school through social media. We started talking. He lives in another state. He came here to meet me. And we were occasionally meeting. Now yesterday I asked him to get married. He said he is not earning as much as I do, also not worthy of me. He said he is not settled yet.

To be honest, I didn’t had any bf before the one I dated . And this one I thought is serious so asked him out for marriage. And now if he rejects me then I am not in a state of another break up.

I just don’t know what to do?


Love

Why does my ex bf s bestfrnd try to contct always?



         🙋‍♀️🌻 Hello again my timed out friends... I apologetically have a bit of what some would call a rant..?🥺 Sooo i just need to stop && try && shake this  rapid boil building inside if me because I've been literally catering to this man, accepting every single one of his wishes ANDD flaws.😳 Respecting his wishes was not easy for me.... I don't bend let alone break on certain things. But with him I learned to please him.. And character flaws he's got too. Like how VANILLA asff he is, with absolutely no wiggle room whatsoever. Lol. I ain't even a super freak or nothinnn.. But I am extremely at least curious about a few little things I'd REALLY LOVE to at least explore further.. Like being tied up -like me just me with tight rope && then ofc being tied down.. Restraints.😋 He's older like 7yrs older I'm only 31. I feel like I need to experience... At least try once with me 5he. If he didn't like it, fair it doesn't have to ever happen again. But I've begged him to try..?! But it never does. Lol 8yrs later I've basically completely abandoned the project && given up all hope in the matter with him. But now he's acting like I don't submit entirely to him andd surrender all the power to him on the Daily. 🙅‍♀️ Hell nah dude. I know we are easing into m seperate lanes but the road to it has been drug out and tiring. He's gotten so unimpressed and cold. I dk friends, my bad. Just kinda at a stalemate && could use some recommendations on how to proceed..?! 🤙✌️

I'm supposed to be a lesbian and I currently have a girlfriend. I only ever had one boyfriend and I'm 24. I always said I was only straight for him but I still have so many fantasies about being with him. We still talk and my gf doesn't know...I still want him so bad...In a perfect world, I'd be with him but things just didn't work out in the end. I just started talking to him like a few months ago after no contact for 2 years. I asked if he wanted to catch up and he said he would rather do it in person. If i see him, do you think he also still has feelings for me??? am i walking into a revolving door if i see him?

Relationships

My boyfriend of almost two years has friendzoned me "subconsciously". Covid 19 and the lockdowns caused us to stay at home and away from each other. Basically a long distance relationship. And it's been a year since covid spread. I'm just finding out that I have been treated like a friend for the past so many months especially the ones when we couldn't meet. Apparently that's his coping mechanism. For months I knew something was wrong but I never thought it could be this. I did try talking to him before and he said it was stress, anxiety, family problems or college. Last night I finally realized what it is and he didn't deny it neither accept it. Of course he feels bad but I literally love him so much and I did so much for him as his girlfriend. I feel betrayed. I need advice what to do next.

Boyfriend

Hello I'm in relationship with a guy since 4 years. He takes a great care of me but he's being over possesive he won't let me talk to other boys.And the saddest thing is we are in long distance relationship which hurts me even more.But i do want make good guy friends.

I'm so confused...my bf love me but he abuse me I hv question should I avoid his behavior? My relation has become so weird now a days....he don't have time for me n I fight for this same reasons daily....what I do?I leave him?

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