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Potato @aloneace

Do people doesn’t care about anything while wanting a relationship? Why are they so desperate to find a gf/bf? Like I’ve been asked if I wanna be their gf on the very first convo…like BROOOO how does that even work? You don’t even knowwww me? How could you ask something so bluntly? Or does relationship mean nothing to these people? Idk I thought everyone thinks the same and would know a person first before forming any relationship with them. But I met such people online and my mind is about to explode!! Coz I don’t get what’s the mentality behind this ?

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Eli @eli_24

some people just have emophillia like I do (Falling in love too quickly)

Potato @aloneace

Noo… but we met online. We just had our hi hello and BOOM…will you be my girlfriend 🤯

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Eli @eli_24

oh. I met someone just the other day on here and we talked for like an hour and now we’re dating. I didn’t know you meant that quickly lol

Potato @aloneace

Oh wow that was quick too!
If it’s okay to ask, can you tell me if you have also some criteria before dating someone? And did you guys started talking in context of getting to know each other better and dating…or you were just talking and suddenly one of you asked the other person? But wait how can one ask someone to be in a relationship in just an hour?!!

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Eli @eli_24

Well, we just both liked each other ig. And I think we’re dating? I’m not sure… And we were just talking cause we had something in common and it turned out that we had a lot more in common then we thought. Like even our favorite foods. And it’s not like I was looking someone to date, I was actually trying to stay out of the whole dating thing. But then this person just showed up and I got a crush. So, IDK, I just like the person because we have a lot in common and he’s really sweet and nice.

Potato @aloneace

Sooo…is that enough to start dating? Wait I think I don’t even know what dating means. Lmao I should do my research. Brb.

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Eli @eli_24

Dating is different than being in a relationship. Dating is like really getting to know someone before diving in and being fully committed.

Potato @aloneace

Ohhhh yesss! I am scared to get into these things coz I think one day it will end and then I’ll lost a friend along with a partner and that will hurt a lot lol.
Anyways, all the best to both of you and thank you!

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Eli @eli_24

Np ;)

kaur @seerat07

“Kahan se aate hai yeh log …”

Potato @aloneace

“Log aise hote hai…?!” is what’s going on in my mind 😂

kaur @seerat07

Thts arshad warsi dialogue

Potato @aloneace

Yes I know!

Adarsh @adarsh4

I think its just a one off thing…wht u experienced…😅

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Ahrstu @ahrstu

Ahh, feeling so good that actually someone thinks like me!!!
Who thinks that before jumping into any relationship, people atleast should have understand each other, that vibes, the feel, the energy, the understanding, and what not… I mean how could you form a relationship with someone without even KNOWING THEM?? HOW?? And then they say “Ohh My Goddd, they left me”, “Ohh my Goddd, feeling sad” #breakup #heartbroken… And at the last… “Is anyone free?😑”

Tbh you have never shared your heart, it’s just the desperation/attraction… Relationship and Love is soo much more than them!!! Ahhh!!😖

And then they say I had X no of GF/BF till now, Brooooo they were just Timepass, you were not even sure about it, you just want it, that’s it.

And I’m wayyyy better to never get into such sort of relationship, but sometimes I do feel am I even right? Will I ever be able to find someone this way? I don’t know… I still have lot to explore…

Sorry I have written too much, but Idk I was just frustrated with this idea of Dating/Relationship

Anytway sticking to your Post…
Idk how in just one single chat/meet/interaction people could even ask that… That’s stupid tbh.
AND IT’S NOT RARE, Instead IT’S COMMON.

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