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Anonymous

Do i not deserve happiness?? The guy i loved is happily married to someone else. And i have still not moved on from him. I still keep thinking that what i did wrong. I made him my priority, i was always available for him whenever he needed me, and still he didn’t choose him.
What is so unlovable about me.
I hate my life, I hate myself, his memories haunt me. My did this have to happen to me. I may be bad, I must have done very bad deeds, but none of it were so bad that i have to see the love of my life with someone else.
It has really broken me, i m not able to concentrate on any work and i think the pain of losing him has also started to take a toll on my health as well.

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anuj @anujvohra

Sorry to hear that. Pls take care of yourself. Take time out, it will take some time. Try to keep yourself engaged with something. Time lagta hai

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Anonymous

I m not able to concentrate on anything, how to keep myself engaged??

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anuj @anujvohra

Go outdoors …Do walking, focus on faith, family and friends. Learn meditation if possible. Meet new people . Although these things will take time, start small. It works wonders.

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Anonymous

Okay, will try
Thanks for your advice

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Anonymous

Yes

Dhanush @nimble_skip

Please consult a good psychologist. You will get tips to work on yourself to be happy ☺️

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I dont jave the aids to see a psychologist

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Anonymous

It doesn’t cost much here. You can spend 500 for half an hour chats on a good psychologist. It’s convenient here in Now&Me. Please make your mental health a priority

Dhanush @nimble_skip

Hi, this was me

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Anonymous

Want to talk

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Anonymous

Yes

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Anonymous

Ohk let’s connect

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Anonymous

You sound like it was your fault that he left you ? People will use any lame excuse to leave.

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Anonymous

I dont know why he left me even after i did everything i could for him

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Anonymous

And you are right, he did give me the lamest reason for leaving

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Anonymous

You made right choice by not connecting people here 😂😂 have fun .

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Anonymous

Why so?

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Anonymous

I am giving my efforts for someone and getting ignored badly, I can correlate to your pain. Are you ok?

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Anonymous

I m not at all ok
Stop giving efforts for that person or you will end up like me

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Anonymous

I feel like crying now

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Anonymous

How should I move on?

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Anonymous

How would i know, i myself crying for days

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Anonymous

Just be easy on yourself and stay distracted and focus on any one thing

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Anonymous

Do you want to share your story?

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Anonymous

I try not to talk about him and all the things he did which hurt me

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Anonymous

But you have to heal

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Anonymous

I know, i just don’t know how

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Anonymous

Can we talk?

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Anonymous

Sure, go ahead

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Anonymous

Yeah, where else?

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Anonymous

Let it be then
Thanks for offering to talk 😊

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Anonymous

Ok sorry

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Anonymous

No need to say sorry
You didn’t do anything wrong
It’s my insecurities which dont let me trust anyone easily.

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Anonymous

I know but atleast we can connect here

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