Do i not deserve happiness?? The guy i loved is happily married to someone else. And i have still not moved on from him. I still keep thinking that what i did wrong. I made him my priority, i was always available for him whenever he needed me, and still he didn’t choose him.
What is so unlovable about me.
I hate my life, I hate myself, his memories haunt me. My did this have to happen to me. I may be bad, I must have done very bad deeds, but none of it were so bad that i have to see the love of my life with someone else.
It has really broken me, i m not able to concentrate on any work and i think the pain of losing him has also started to take a toll on my health as well.
anuj @anujvohra
Sorry to hear that. Pls take care of yourself. Take time out, it will take some time. Try to keep yourself engaged with something. Time lagta hai
I m not able to concentrate on anything, how to keep myself engaged??
anuj @anujvohra
Go outdoors …Do walking, focus on faith, family and friends. Learn meditation if possible. Meet new people . Although these things will take time, start small. It works wonders.
Okay, will try
Thanks for your advice
Yes
Dhanush @nimble_skip
Please consult a good psychologist. You will get tips to work on yourself to be happy ☺️
I dont jave the aids to see a psychologist
It doesn’t cost much here. You can spend 500 for half an hour chats on a good psychologist. It’s convenient here in Now&Me. Please make your mental health a priority
Dhanush @nimble_skip
Hi, this was me
Want to talk
Yes
Ohk let’s connect
I am giving my efforts for someone and getting ignored badly, I can correlate to your pain. Are you ok?
I m not at all ok
Stop giving efforts for that person or you will end up like me
I feel like crying now
How should I move on?
How would i know, i myself crying for days
Just be easy on yourself and stay distracted and focus on any one thing
Do you want to share your story?
I try not to talk about him and all the things he did which hurt me
But you have to heal
I know, i just don’t know how
Can we talk?
Sure, go ahead
Yeah, where else?
Let it be then
Thanks for offering to talk 😊
Ok sorry
No need to say sorry
You didn’t do anything wrong
It’s my insecurities which dont let me trust anyone easily.
I know but atleast we can connect here
