Simran @st1199
Hello!
Do you mean literally out in the cold or it’s a phrase used to depict something?
Yes, I think maybe they mean as a metaphor… Well, to OP then I ask; what is your reasoning… Think about why you may have made this decision to leave her “high and dry”, as the other saying goes. Maybe in the time being you were thinking from your perspective that, that was the best thing to do…but now you may come to realize from her POV that she may not have some sort of closure… Or you feel remorseful… Or you even now feel lonely. To admit you feel guilt is a first step perhaps, even allowing yourself to forgive yourself…it may have been a wrong-doing that has now hurt you both… But take the steps now start being responsible for your actions so that you may both heal. Wish you luck.
It’s a metaphor of course lol. I’m actually the girlfriend here and I never really got my closure and sometimes I just wonder does he even realize how much pain he caused.
Simran @st1199
Then, go and talk to him directly. It’s better to be clear on things rather than assuming and feeling bad for certain things.
Be upfront and then decide on a further course of action.
It will give you a direction to know what happened and why it happened in the first place. Maybe he is going through something which he isn’t talking about and waiting for you to ask him away?
Oh! Lol! Well…yea I think I may have come from your pov then…the closure part I feel is important sometimes… But dont linger on it otherwise you’re only hurting yourself…I too have felt this pain…and I wonder why…and all I can say is if you can try to ask and communicate then you should otherwise if they’ve moved on…why not you as well. Dont hold yourself back.
no they dont .actually love is not real its fake
