Do guys miss their ex girlfriend after break up? I really don't understand why my boyfriend never tried to contact me after the breakup. I didn't want to leave him, but It's okay.. I don't wanna force him into a relationship as well.. All I wish is that if I could ever know how he feels, does he miss me?
Does he remember all the moments that we spent together during our college days, those bunk days, those canteen moments, everything... Does he think of me? Was I a burden to him?
I never knew it's so easy to forget a person like this.. We broke up for almost a month now.. in lockdown.. but everytime I see the pictures.. I cry.. I wish I could read his heart and his feelings for me.

Yes we do, in fact compared to females we get more hurt

Oh they doo.. Trust me. Some just act on it some dont. 

Breakup

Hi right now if you ask if I'm ok i would say yes I'm 100% ok but I'm not I'm close to cuting my self at the moment. My parents hate my boyfriend just because me and him live for away from one another. I understand my parents don't wont me heart broken in the long run. I would call my boyfriend and have him cheer me up because he there with me though everything he seen me at my worse and even though I can be a handful for him he stays and try's to help me. I cant talk to my boyfriend because he is sleeping and my parents took my phone and I texted him on google hangouts and  that's the last way I can talk to him. I know that I don't have a good family life and I know love is southing people look for when they don't have good family's. But I love him because he will stop what every he is doing to take care of me and to spend time with me. He has lute me meet his mom and sister and I know that's heard for him because his dad died this summer and he hasn't dated in a long time. I don't wont to lose him because my parents wont lute do a long distance relationship.

Long Distance Relationship

I love him more than anything its been 1year i am still in love with him 
We dont talk now because he said many things bad about me and did bad to me , cheated , abused etc etc , and still knowing this i went back to him and loved him harder just so that he will also love me back ,
But then i broke up after sometime  … he begged me to stay but i said no … he still talk to me sometimes , and want me back , what should i do ????

Love

Jst had a breakup.....till today din have the courage .....was in a confusion wethr or not to....i felt that our relationshp was not a genuine 1 both of us wer tired of each othr...even if we marry it wont go well....i always felt he had some toxic traits....my instinct always signalled me that this was not gonna b gud....but my heart used to always ignore it....i dont knw wat feeling i have now....i still luv him...but i m jst done wid this....throughout the relationshp i had this confusion wether this guy wud be gud 4 me....i havent felt that pure feel of luv frm him..... I dont knw wethr its a ryt decision or not....i will miss him....anyway watever comes up shud b dealt with...

Relationships

I like this guy very much. We were about to get married but my family is not ready i try to convince them but they are so against it. I just needed some time to get independent and get a job to convince my parents but my bf's family can't wait and now he's going to engage with someone next one... I'm aware that it's for the best but it hurts so much. I'm not able to get normal... My mind is disturbed. What to do

Frustration

In love with someone. But can't be with him. He was separated when we met and was about to apply for divorce but now things have changed and his wife is back. They do not share a very good relationship. She is verbally and physically abusive. I have heard her. His family seems to be happy with the arrangement. I am finding it really difficult to move on. We work together and i see him almost everyday. My parents are pressuring me to get married and i also feel the need for companionship. 

What should I do? Is it okay to continue seeing him knowing that there is no future together? I am just stuck at if it is morally right? Should I move ahead with an arranged marriage for which I am probably not ready. 

He is also going through a major depression phase for which he's not ready to take any counselling. He feels i should move on as he's not worth my time because he suffers from an autoimmune disease which would affect his mobility in old age. 

I just can't take the decision. He's the best i have had till now. I have never been so comfortable with anyone in my life. 





Mental Health

So two days ago I ended everything with the guy I really wanted to be with! We dated for couple of months, oh! Everything was so perfect about that relationship. We used to share a great bond, he used to understand me like nobody did.. 
But suddenly two months ago he stopped putting any efforts, was constantly ignoring my texts, didn't even call me a single time! But never told me what he wants! Felt like he was just keeping me as an option! So distancing was the only option left infront of me.. as he was not clearly saying anything. And it was making me anxious like hell!!
But now I just can't stop thinking about him, I'm feeling extremely sad. I've exams tomorrow, but I can't read a single word! Feels like I'm lost... Please help!
(We both are 21)

Anxiety

So confused. 
The situation is the following. Me (24F) and my partner (40M) have been living together for two years now and we are certain that we want to start a family together. There are some problems especially for me to start a family where we currently live and it is because in this city they speak my native language but it's a co-oficial language, the other it's a language that only this region speaks in the whole world and at school it's mandatory to learn it. So my future children will be speaking my native language but obligated to receive classes in a language that me and my partner don't know and we won't learn it because in the professional field it's useless. We won't be able to help them with school besides the fact that they will have no use of this language in any other country. So at first we agreed that eventually we will have to move out to start a family. Yes we own an apartment here, all of my partner's frieds and family live here but not any of mine so I get he has more to lose than me... So next year I graduated from university and I'm ready to leave but my partner says that he doesn't want to plan anything so when I come up to places, countries, cities and visas we can apply for (he's a skilled worker with +10 year experience) he says that I'm not planning enough that I'm not taking in considerantion all the requirements that's way I come to him but he says he doesn't want to think about it. I'm driving myself crazy because I want to know what lenguage to learn or get a diploma, I want to make an internships in that place before we move there but he's unable to plan It with me and we had this same conversation over and over again so I told him that leaves me all alone making the decisions and actually doing things that will be easy for me to move to that place. I feel guilty and confused because it's like I'm planning for the future bymyself for myself because I can't count on him or have a single clue of what he wants to do next year. 

Am I being the a-hole? what do I feel so terrible If I'm doing things like exactly how I want my future to be like?

My most concerned thoughts:
1. I am in love with my best friend. He too feels the same during initial days. But somehow he managed to forget everything and acts like nothing happens for few months. Again he came back and said me that he likes me but due to some family problems he is not ready to proceed. He is not settled till now. I am praying daily for his settlement. I don’t know whether he is good to me or not but i feel happy when I speak to him. If things don’t go well. He is ready to let go off . I am not ready to this. He says many reasons. I even don’t understand the reasons he says sometimes. It’s been 4 years the same thing happening. He comes to me talks to me and leave alone all off suddenly. Me on the other side crying, begging him, not living happily my life.
2. I am an introverted kinda person. I am not interested in the job which I am doing currently. All this heart achings and everything makes me miserable. I can’t even concentrate on anything. I can count my happy days since 4 years.I want to live my life peacefully and happily. I don’t know how it happens.

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