Yes couples minus therapist. Never involve a third person in your relation. Try to sort on your own.
We tried but it’s not working. That’s why I think couple’s therapy could be something which can show us something we’re doing wrong.
Be eachother’s therapist. It will work.
We have tried a lot of times. But something always feels missing. That is why I feel having a third person pov especially a professional can tell us where are we going wrong.
Couple’s
You sit down with therapist. Talk about your problems. And they guide us. They don’t tell us things but they give us direction to find answers on our own. And after finding answers they give us tasks of working on the issues we found ourselves in.
Why doesn’t make sense to you?
I understand what you’re saying. And it is right. I would’ve said the same if my case was fitting into this. But it doesn’t, it’s a little bit different. My goals for therapy are a bit different. So that’s why I’m opting for one.
But yeah, as I said…your pov is right too.
He said that I’m looking for a long term relationship and we’ll try that only once. Which I agreed with.
The thing is I’m afraid too, I don’t wanna open up the page which is too risky but I also don’t know what else to do cause there are things we both are not being able to understand about each other. We have try to talk about it a million times. It hardly gets better.
There are other factors too and I just want to be sure of this relationship. Because there are many hardships down the road which I’m ready to go through If I get the surety. Which is hard to get because he hardly opens up and shares stuff, or maybe I’m just not being able to see it… whatever it is, it’s the reason for me wanting to opt for therapy. It’ll just help us understand that situation better.
I hope therapist takes care of that
Yeah thanks, not going immediately. Still thinking about it.
So you’re saying don’t expect, from the person who means the world to you to open up while you have no idea if he ever will while he doesn’t ask you too and keep the distance but also loves you and you love him, to open up?
