currently I am feeling so confused. I am in a complicated relationship from the past 3 years. Now my bf doesn’t contacts me frequently he never asks me how am I doing or how was my day and even I am tired of trying too hard for him. He sometimes only face times me that too not very often like I know he is absolutely not into me but he never says the truth atleast we could breakup but no he never says anything and by his behaviour I have already known that he is not in love with me. We are also in a long distance relationship and we haven’t met from a long time and he even stopped contacting me now only facetimes when he wills just for 2 mins that’s all.
What should I do now? Please advice me
Go in person and ask him whether he loves you or not…If he dont find a nice man eho can understand you…who loves you
He always does the same. He says he loves me but his actions shows he is absolutely not in love with me. It’s been more than 6 days that he haven’t heard my voice but he still didn’t call me.
Sorry to break it to you… he is not your bf…there is nothing called part time lover…if someone cares about you they would constantly want to know what you are doing how you are feeling…if it’s long distance then the eagerness Is hundred times… please speak openly and don’t force the relationship…if once interest is lost there is no way to salvage your relationship
That’s okay don’t be sorry. I agree with whatever you said. I will leave him but the problem is if try to talk to him openly about it he still seems to avoid. I don’t know what to do. He never responds. I am the only one who is constantly crying he just doesn’t cares
You need to stand up for yourself… sit him through a conversation and tell clearly that you are done with him…no need to keep hurting…
Okay sis I will do it by today.
All the best 😄
Hey I thought I should tell you what exactly happened today. So first I contacted him to clear out everything but he was least interested in the conversation and said he will talk about it later. I called him twice after 4 hrs or so thinking now atleast he might talk to me and he declined the calls and blocked me.
That’s pretty sad…he doesn’t deserve closure. Just message him that it’s over and you can block him too…it’s gonna be very hard for 6 months minimum…but remember u need someone to love and appreciate you and you shouldn’t compromise…since he is not showing any interest as of now itself so understand he is very happy without you… fight for your self respect and accept the fact that you deserve love…real kindda love…
Such a terrible heartbreak I am having. Words can’t explain what I am going through. I didn’t had any idea that people can change so easily. I have to move on in my life and accept the fact that he is never going to change and love me like before. I will have to think about myself. Thanks hon for the emotional support that you have been giving me through this texts. I appreciate that. God bless you.
I hope you feel better soon…my mom always says… every jar has a lid…so we all are made in pairs…you will find the right one soon…stay blessed
Just checking up on you…are you holding up ok …
Dany @dannyi
sometimes its ok to give time and i also feel u should take decision but not for sake of not giving time for each other.
Yah but he is really not into me. He even blocked me because he is no way interested in having a conversation with me. It’s just one sided love and I suffering.
Dany @dannyi
then forget him ya, in life we fall in love for 3 times itseems… one childhood another like one sided or mature things, where we learn things n so on the third will be final and best love, as u would have learnt lots of thigs from past, there are lots of people who will be open for u, relax n find the best person for u, 😀
Yah I have no other options left except for leaving him. He really is responsible for deteriorating my mental health. I hope I will find someone better someday. I really had bad experience in this relationship.
Dany @dannyi
take it as a learning my dear, I was into a guy who was in my class, got close and then i wanted to be with him all the time, first he called me chipku, i ignored, then he started saying i talk too much, even then i was like he is too straight forward, he is like that only its ok and all that, then after some time my friend told its too much and she cant bear me doing things towards him and he has no proper response , slowly is striated thinking and connected the dots, then one day i gave him a card saying thanks for ur tie, that night cried well, next day i met with an accident, then also he dint come to see me, all my friends came home… then i was like i wasted my time n energy on a wrong guy, then slowly i started picking up tattooing as a hobby, it was easy to move on…
I am glad you moved on in your life and you are happy now. And I am proud of you for taking a step for yourself. He didn’t deserve you. You will find someone who will genuinely love you. We girls tend to fall for the wrong guy but yeah you are right I got to learn so much. I know I am going to cry for some days but by God’s grace I will be fine again I know. This fellow broke my heart so badly he shall realise one day and it will be too late that.
