Could anyone help me coz its like for me I’m worrying a lot abt my frnds breakup which is not becoz of me but her lover claims that it’s becoz of me and Im so worried that she’s my close frnd and shes now avoiding me and also she’s feeling a lot don’t know what to do we made a lots and lots of good memories and I can’t bare her that she’s not happy now 🥺her b day is also coming indirectly I’m feeling like I’m the one who ruined her love but idk she’s commited unless she let me know after her lover’s fight becoz of my chats or knowing me😞basically I’m a medico so we talked abt medical stuffs and he though like she was talking to me with bad intention thats completely wrong 😞as a frnd and as a future dr I just reassured her certain things but now I feel that it was all becoz of me and I can’t even concentrate on my things there’s a glimpse of her memory now and then like how she was and I ruined her like that pls help
Hey buddy relax there is nothing to worry abt relax take deep breath and have some water and tell me ever thing in detail you can tell here also or we can talk privately also okay
if she is talking to you and you are her male friend and she also has a BF then it’s obvious that he will get jealous…
I have seen many cases where a boy best friend is the reason of unwanted situations in a relationship…
your intentions aren’t wrong but she spends more time talking to you this makes her BF insecure… and feeling insecure may it be girlfriend or boyfriend, it’s natural psychological condition in such circumstances…
If her BF truly loves her - he will understand her situation and they will be happily together again…
and now she is avoiding you bcoz she don’t want to lose her LOVE…
so now you must try to understand the situation and sacrifice your 75% friendship with that girl in-order to keep her happy…
(it’s not anyone’s fault here, but there are some situations in our life that we must try to understand - )
what you can do is - you 3 can setup a meeting - say sorry to both of them and explain him what your intentions were & tell both of them that you will not text her without any solid reason…
or
simply make a chat group - add both of them in it - explain what your intentions were - say sorry - and leave the chat group…
(it’s not your mistake but still saying sorry is a polite way to show your good and humble personality - coz your goal is to not become a reason of her unhappiness )
see there’s no permanent solution that you can talk to her like you did always and her BF will have no problem with that…
be a good friend & do what’s right for your friend’s healthy relationship with her BF…
So now you know what you must do !
think on it and make the right decision …
All the best …
