College farewell is all about cherishing memories of your college life. I neither made friends nor any memories so I’m choosing not to go to my farewell. Am i doing right? There’s absolutely nothing to look forward to going to classes when no one really texts you and ask if you’re coming or not. Same with the farewell. I made a lot of efforts to make friends but I couldn’t just fit in and make my place. Even the ones that seemed good friends chose to ignore for whatever reasons.
Are you an introvert ? Or didn’t find friends of your type?
Ok, but u must go to farewell for urself not for anyone.
You must go. It won’t be easy, infact it will be far from easy but there are 2 pros of attending your farewell 1) you wont regret on missing out on something big. Not giving this one last chance ti yourself to make friends. 2) you will be super proud of yourself in the future when you will see how strong you were to take such a bold step. Remember, agar life me successful hona hai to akele hi chalna padega. Or wese bhi farewell 1 hi baar hota h…attend it…don’t keep your hopes high but don’t lose your hopes either. Good luck
I understood your point but what will I do even if I go there, just be busy in my phone to pretend I’m not feeling alone or click pictures with others by force or get in unnecessarily to ruin their group pictures? Some of the people who talk(ed) to me so nicely on WA as if they are my bffs ignore me and make me feel sickkk so badly I can’t even tell you. I come home from college everyday all alone while my mom thinks there is always someone to accompany me. I don’t attend any classes post lunch because there’s no one to even have lunch w me or go to canteen for that matter. Sorry for this rant but I’m just tired of all the unnecessary jealousy and looking down on others without any reason at all. I’m the most friendly and warmest person out there but this is just so much of negativity to process.
People hardly bother to ask me if I’m not attending college since a week forget about for just a day at farewell. A group picture with or without me hardly makes any difference to anyone I’ve realised this.
First of all you don’t have to be sorry to pour out your feelings here. Secondly what you are saying…what you are feeling…is absolutely true…you know many of us have gone through the same thing…and at the age you are in, it is all more difficult. But that’s what tough people do. They fight the odds. Go to the farewell…full confidently. Don’t try to unnecessarily sneak in group. Sit there. Observe people, be good, friendly and warm which you said you are, but don’t overdo it. You might get many lessons of your life. And another aspest is Why do you feel unwanted. Chances are that people might be thinking that you are not interested in their company.
It is not about other…If a group picture with you will matter to them or not. It is about you. Will it matter to you?