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@mmko34

Can someone tell me how do I love myself?
Like I always end up messing things up and always get scolded
I just hate my for what I am today

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@mmko34

Thanks for the help!
I appreciate it so much😊

@bubbly

I know you can’t start loving yourself in a minute. But you can stop hatinv yourself for you are.
Accept yourself that way you are.
You are unique and precious and awesome in your own way. There is someone out there who would kill to be you.
Embrace yourself.
And forgive yourself. Everybody makes mistakes. But the one who rectifies it and never does it again, grows. When someone scolds you, its cause they want you to learn. Take it positively.
You’ll be okay. Sending you love❤️

Anonymous

Thanks for helping me!!!😊

Phoenix @mdaarizamaan

You know the fact is exactly opposite of what you said. Think about you hate yourself thats why you are getting scolded/messing things up, confused. Thats all because because you hate your self. Thats a vicious cycle. When you mess up things you hate yourself more, then the more you hate yourself. the more you mess up things. Loving oneself means accepting the fact that you are like this no matter if your good or bad. Accept yourself. And embrace your flaws i,. Means accepting that you have “these” Flaws. because those flaws represents you. Everyone have flaws no one is perfect. I myself a teenager with 100 of flaws. And I’ve accepted my flaws becoz those flaws makes me ME. . .
☺be at peace with yourself. The moment you are at peace qith yourself everyone/everything around will be at peace with you.

Anonymous

Aww thanks for such a useful advice !!!
I appreciate it so much 😊

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Anonymous

U can try loving yourself like the way u love others who don’t even care about u

@christy333

Hello frnd👋… Just take a deep breathe coz not only u we had been in there in that situation where we hate ourselves but tbh it didn’t last for so much time… Then we all will rise n shine… Just remeber one thing you are perfect n exactly where u want to be 💟it may feel so hard to stand here now but sure this will shape n mend ur way so beautiful just trust me friend… You are a 👑! Just be proud of much u had grown now 💯but happy… Go to the mirror, sit there for 3 hours everyday just talk to you… Ask questions abt yourself n sure one day you’ll became a frnd to yourself 😉

@mmko34

Awww that’s so sweet of you!!😊

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Anonymous

I know the generic methods doesn’t work at all so i started writing letters to myself when even a simple good thing happened and re-read those in the moments when i hated myself slowly ot became a habit and now i hate myself a little less!

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