Can someone talk to me about this because i feel i am annoying people by talking to them on how i was wrong for my engagement to break
hii sure we can talk
Hello š
We can talk
so what happened exactly
I loved him but waited for a perfect time to express ā¦ we were to get married nxt monthā¦ but in planning a surprise for him we had a small fight ā¦ he took old call recording and broke the engagement stating that i donāt talk nicely
I called and messaged him like anything but he didnāt replied ā¦ i feel bad ā¦ 2 days before he told me that he wantedā¦ to get married to me only ā¦ when his dad asked for money
itās gonna be okay
well this is actually a lesson
maybe he would not have done it if he really loved you
an old version of yourself does not reflect who you are now
a small fight can never be a reason to break two people who are on love if he really loved you he would try to make things work out
Or may be it was my fault only i couldnāt make him fall for me ā¦ i didnāt let him touch and connect to me
i think you should let time do its thing
maybe heāll come back and apologise
he will feel bad if he really loves you
May be he was tired of fight with me ā¦ may be he couldnāt handel this anymore
Now i feel bad because that was best i could get and now i donāt think so i will ever find anyone
how old are you if you mind me asking
No he will never do that he hate me nowā¦
28
i understand
you feel remorse
you apologised
everyone makes mistakes
its human
it happens
but life goes on
maybe he wasnt the right for you
things will be hard
really hard
but with time you will heal and you will get better
you just have to let go and let things happen
good people will stay
He was good ā¦ and now I feel thisā¦ he was really good ā¦
Am i not good enough that I deserve a last conversation
Please do not blame yourself for the pain other person has caused you. For once, think of how you were in this relationship and the efforts youāve put instead of thinking about what has driven him away. It isnāt your fault. By accusing yourself, youāre causing pain to yourself as much as he is doing. The very fact that he didnāt hesitate to call it off right before the wedding is even more upsetting, but do not take the responsibility of someone elseās behaviour. Itās hard, and I donāt know what to tell you at this point because I donāt know your relationship, but I can assure that Iām here and things will fall in places.
Sending love ā¤ļø
