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Anonymous

Can i know what should i do for my problem?
I just found out my mom has another secret man. She cheats on my father who is in sea now. What am i suppose to do? Tell my dad the truth or keep my mouth shut?

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Simran @st1199

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Hi!
I think you should confront your mother first. Ask her what is all this and how could she do this to your father.
If possible, get an access to her phone and see details about the secret man and how are they chatting. It seems creepy, but its for your father and he deserves to know that. (Only if your mother doesn’t tell you the truth).

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Hi, really thank you very much for your help.
But you know this situation is really difficult to handle. That man is also a married man with two kids in another country. And my mom deletes every chat before she gives me the phone. I found some of those chats screenshots she took in the gallary bin. Thats how i got to know all about this. And even right now she is in a call with that man hidding upstairs, i can barely even hear it. If i tell my father about this he will make a big sceen in the house when he comes back. All i can do is pretending not to know anything for a while. im really annoyed. Stay safe.

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Simran @st1199

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I hope you know that by not doing anything you are ruining your father’s life. Maybe after some time it’s better to disclose rather than living with this the whole life and regretting you couldn’t help him.

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