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His ex says she is out of his caste and his brother is not doing anything and going for intercaste marriage …and she agrees with his problem and put that on me , and when I asked her why u broke up she said they have no future his father will not permit that and when I asked yaar u were about to give him commitment and u were together 2 and half years that time where were ur fathers thought she replied I had thought that I will convince my father but now I believe I cant and she wants when she look back her family shourlld be there …
They broke up or not I can’t understand these things as I have been very away from these society things and I am a soldier and first time I have allowed any girl to come closure to me I love her she also feels safe and confident with me she looks me as nice opportunity that she can control me
I don’t know what to do boundaries I can’t set for her I don’t like her nature of still talking and meeting him . she is betraying her family trust to meet him but she is honest in every way to me . I don’t know which direction k should go

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Aaahh 😬😬 it is easy to say , I know this is the best thing I can do . But can’t do this as I am man who have given commitment to her she is the first girl I let her come close to me , and I only need single girl in my life I can’t move on , just tell me how I can show my love for her and keep it alive so she clears her doubtful thoughts , confusion and she gets a way to stay and stay loyal with me . I am not going anywhere even if it is hitting mental state . Hamare yha relationship single hote h tode nhi jate. Abb bss kroun kya smhj nhi aata

I have already her if you ever feel me as an option then kick me out , not let me hanging but aisa kuch bolti hi nhi wo

Ohh man , you are bang on but my heart is not allowing yaar
Look I am at very distant to her , with every day risk that I will see next morning(compared to normal people) or not so my mind only says you should let her go but my heart my intellect my mann does not allow
Whole day I am thinking about her
That does her past matters to me does her activities linked with it hurts me , does her honesty paves all those things does her call of spending quality time with me at the same location with her past …I will be ok there but what if she felt nostalgic ,my moment will be ruined there na
Leaving all these thing
What about my value from her perspective she will never have equal eye for me
Kya call loun kuch pta nhi

Hdd hi ho gai 🥺🥺🤯😖

How selfish people are .
There is no scope of little adjustment , compromises , little sacrifices for the person u love the most
People betray their parents betray their mates and loved once just to have good memories for them , this is not self love
What kind of world people are in they think if they have parents who restricts they are bad , it is possible na they trust you but not outside world they show nothing but concern . Yaar my parents have also been strict , even I am boy I was not allowed with friends home and till now I have been serving my mother says enter home before 7 what all these are yaar they are just concern and today is the day when I ask my mother this thing I am going to do aur there I am going with that girl , even I am that much confident I can share her that everything . Yaar I never had a friend joined forces at very young age mates are from different regions but still when I go home there is no one , my sister insisted me to make a friend who is girl I allowed her eventually I started loving her never gave her designation , I told her kind be your friend I have only colomn of wife nothing else before … If you want ki I do all those stuffs other people do before marriage but I denied I am old school guy and introvert also
Abb jb bhi wo kuch apne parents k liye bolti h I get hurt why she is like that I take cover for them then she says lo one more mother father I got
I don’t know yaar what to do

Then tell me why I should let her go what will be the benefits

I agree with you yaar and you have made me very to close to see reality , I have got the hidden solution from my mind .
But point is ye mera koi trauma maan lo yaa gndi aadat , I am scared of losing people as I have very few , from childhood I have been child who went to convince and pamper siblings and friends even if they had a fault , I hate losing people . I will still give her a chance . I am not any kind of so called ashiq ya mko aapki baat smhj nhi aa rhi but it is my principle not let go people from my circle . I have definite determination that she will retreat going away from me that’s why I don’t want her let go 🙂
all I could is my presence and loyalty

Thanks mate , it’s you and your generosity
It’s in the eyes of viewer , I agree but what if my mind is thinking in different way that the characteristics you have mentioned about girl are hard to find near to impossible and what I believe is kisi pr raub jta kr yaar der baitha kr you can’t control any person do as you like but the love can do that if a man or woman love someone by heart they have understanding like my mother father have eyes wali , they can do anything for each other he is ex service man too and my mother and father never felt any boundaries they lived their live best

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I think you should let her go, for some time you should let her do whatever she wants, she will surely learn her lesson and come back to you with 100% on you…

Thanks miss :)

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