Brother always mocking me saying that I have no friends and showing off his friends.

Emotional Abuse

I have an annoying brother who is rude, irritating & forces me to do things against my wishes. My mom never supports me, instead encourages him all the time. I want to move out of my house & settle in the city I work. But they keep troubling. I feel exhausted & stressed. On top, they want to control what I buy, where to go, who will be my friends & wants be to be a rosy barbie girl. My identity & personality is destroyed.

Adulting

How to behave in a matured manner?
I am 19 and I have a younger brother.we fight for every single thing. He's quite dominating.My parents ask me always to behave myself because I am the eldest.what to do?
By the way I am not writing this just because  fed up of this and all..its nothing like that...I just wanted to find the answer..that's all

Personal Growth

Why is my brother such a dumb asshole?

Family

My sister recently got married.I was talking to the groom's brother since I felt he is good by nature.
I got to know he is from similar educational background but right now he is a fresher.
He asked me where do I work? I told him my company's name.He then asked me "you work at call center?"
I said "no,its IT company".
Then he asked "so you work at support"
I said "I am a developer"
Then he says "Oh,since you are developer its a great thing".
I am really confused if his questions were innocent or he was trying to put me down.
Is it necessary that the person working at good post should wear that attitude and not be down to earth?

Mental Health

I say that I am standing for my brother but fake it, rather I change him to be a better person I don't like him being stupid and being stuck at one place and not moving from that.
I constantly look how can I change it in this I make him small wrong. 
Impact on me is I feel I am also stuck with him, my brother should not have been him, he is elder and I always look for somebody who can support me since i know he can't. 

Missing not acknowledging him for who he is being. And look what he can do from what are the strengths he has. 
Possibility who I am being is acknowledgment 


Anger Issues

However much we may fight, I love my brother and I know he'll always be there for me. So what if there is a huge age gap, siblings are the only people you love and fight with! 

Relationships

I have an older siblings that hates me for some reason 
Any advice 

Teenagers

Guys my brother earns very good and I don't earn anything today in a fight with him he taunted me about "Aukat " and pointed that I m worthless coz of my unemployment 
I am happy got to know real side of him aj tak sirf suna tha ab experience bhi karlia  
Apne bhi apne ni hote 
Paisa hai toh izzat hai 

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