“breaking up” with someone you never actually dated hurts badly. all those late nights talking to them, spending time with each other, and then suddenly it all ends. it hurts because it makes it hard to move on due to the “what ifs” or what it could have been like. it’s just constant dwelling and wondering.
When we left someone close to us and we invest a lot in them then our mind forces us to go back to make things better or punish us with pain so we don’t do that again
Hope hurts a lot
If you want to move on accept they left you and you have to live without them
I also faced something similar… I made some mistakes and she made some… I learnt alot about life and people and myself … sometimes i feel guilty … but things will be great for her and maybe for me :(
Get someone new