Boss, friendship is not something decided in one day, but it's something formed before you know it.

Not only friendship all the relationship are like as a wet clay it's upto you what shape you formed and what size you are want to give 

Friends

Hi, this day has just been so awful. We're a group of three friends and I teased person A about someone having a crush on her, and she got so offended that she's ignoring me. Which would have been understandable but Person B also made a much more teasing joke and Person A just laughed it off. So, am I being too much in asking for my friend to talk to me or was it right of her to do so? And I apologized but she just won't talk to me, and when I talk to other people in school, she just comes to me and says, 'So, you are not talking with me?' What should I do? Any ideas?

I have a friend, (I consider her as my closest friend, but i don't think she consider me as her close friend)

So she and i are in different highschool, we both go to public highschool that's not good at all. Then we have something in common, that we want to move to different highschool, but we have a lot of challenges like money and it's hard to find other school, until our sophomore year.

 But suddenly yesterday she told me that she will move to other school out of our city. And that's break my heart, i feel like she left me. And she doesn't tell me her prosess of moving and stuff. 
I really upset to her, she's like betraying me.

Every month in the weekend she and i will hangout and stuff, but in the last weekend she already promised that we will hangout, but she keep procrastinating, so we dont go hangout.

I don't know what to do, should i do the same, Move to other school? I have started to adapt in my current school, but still, im not belong to there. 


3am Thoughts

I'm not doing so well and idk what to do about it anymore. I feel like I'm in a downward spiral I'll never get out of. I've gone through a living hell and finally got out of a very violent relationship. I've worked so hard to get to a good place, but It's slowly dwindling away. 

I have a friend I've known for 14 years now, I'm probably her oldest friend at this point, I've been there for her, put up with some pretty insane stuff, and now out of nowhere, she won't talk to me. To say it's upsetting is an understatement, and given with what hell I've been through, I just can't really handle this. She will go long periods without saying a word to me, then when she messages me and I've tried to talk to her, she won't talk at all. Idk why she's doing this to me, but it makes me feel like I'm a cat's pray and I'm just being toyed with. 

And it's so damn hard not just ignore this and pretend it's not getting me. I have no one I can even talk to now. This whole thing has really put me in a dark depressing place. It's like she acts any decency or empathy. 

Depression

I feel so anxious and alone. The person I considered as my best friend and soulmate and I thought she is the kind of friend who will never ever made me feel bad about myself, left me. She checked my phone behind my back. She has assaulted my emotionally, verbally and manipulated me. She is an influencer and whatever she portrays on social media is fake. She is a feminazi and a very insensitive person. She judges people when someone is grieving and in pain. She has fat shamed me and victim blamed me when a guy assaulted me. I am trying to get over her and whatever she did to me. But sometimes I just can’t stop thinking about the good times we had together. 

Exhausted

I was the replaceable friend.

4th grade - I had a friend (lets call her A). A never introduced me to her friends. I was treated as an option. She had 2-3 friends with whom she used to hang out during recess. She only used to talk to me or play with me during recess when her friends were absent or when she had a fight with them.

5th grade - I became friends with a girl (lets call her B). Now, B was an excellent student and I was the second best girl student of my class. Everything was going great  until we were promoted to 6th grade. A girl replaced me as the second best girl student and I became the third best girl student. Suddenly B who never acknowledged that girl's existence became her best friend and I was replaced. I wrote B's notes and even listened to her favorite music so that we could discuss about that and become friends again. But she pretended that I didn't exist and avoided me and only acknowledged me when she needed something. I tried for few months and then gave up and we drifted apart. Few years later when I was in 10th grade I came to know that she told everyone that I had ditched her because I was jealous of her excellent academics.

11th grade - All my friends from 10th grade ditched me. Every single one of them. The made plans without me and never even bothered to invite me. 

I have deactivated my social media accounts due to competitive exam preparations and out of 20 people only 1 of them bothered to check on me and its been 2 years.

Whenever they needed a listener, or wanted notes, or wanted an optional friend they used to come to me. Nowadays I don't even bother making too much effort. If I see someone not making an effort I leave them instantly. There should be a balance. Just like a relationship, friendship too requires efforts from both.

I have 2-3 friends (my true friends) who check on me, support me, talk to me like friends should. I will cherish them forever.

What is your story? Were you ditched by a friend?

What's more geniune these days... Friendship or Relationship?!

I am a student who is preparing for entrance exam. I got decent marks in first attempt but failed to get college. I decided to take drop and appear again for it. But all of my friends who got college now left me. I only got my female bestie with me. With failure and everyone leaving me I am starting to self doubt myself. I am having thought that might my bestie will also leave me. I will always get replaced in everyone lives. 
This is getting heavy because the people who I thought were the best people in my life left me in my difficult phase . I have my bestie but I feel like I can't disturb her. She has got her own studies and responsibilities. I don't know what to do. 
I just want to write it down. Thanks for listening me😊. 

I'm sober tmmrw. I've got a new hair cut, I'm finding a new spiritual path. but I'm alone. I lost my closest friend, but i have no one else, because i pushed them all away to be with her. I felt like this was more of a breakup than a friendship ending. I'm not too good at making friendships that last, but i want more friends. I don't even know what i did wrong. I know i said things, i know i talked about how i would drop her if i got a bf, and how i would drop the world if i did. but she got mad, and left. I'm not her other friends. I fell in love with her and now we won't even talk to each other. I want her attention but then i think about how weak i am for her then it's over because that's it. that's the truth. I fell in love with her, and i know she didn't love me back. I fell in love with the wake she would fall asleep next to me, how she would plan each outfit carefully, the way she would walk with a bounce in her step if we would get food. Her face when you'd give her stuff. She's gonna be loved, but not by me, and that is the hardest things I'll ever have to accept. But the worst part was that I lost my friend, my closest companion. 

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